If your ex-husband has moved his girlfriend into his home do your children still have to stay overnight if this is deemed immoral and inappropriate in a small community?

Answer 1

• There are not too many small communities left that deem a woman living with a man immoral even if it's an ex husband and each individual lives in a free country .... America. If this woman is a decent sort then there should be no problem with your children seeing their father. If you fear that others will think you immoral for doing so then set-up a time so the children can have quality time with their father alone. Yes, your ex husband has a right to see his children and if the woman he is with is not good to your children then you can seek legal help so that your children do not have to visit their father at his home. Perhaps if you think clearly this could be a little more about what you think (perhaps you are still feeling grief over the break-up of your marriage) and it's normal to be angry at the woman who took your husband away. Think about it and you will know what is the right thing to do. If you always worry about what other people think then you will never be strong enough to make your own decisions or what is best for your children.

I would suggest buying him a couple of books by Dr. Laura Schllessinger

Stupid Things Parents Do to Mess Up Their Kids

Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives