If your girlfriend has a lot of male friends and one of them really likes her but she says they are just friends should that bother you?

Answer 1

== == == == * If a woman knows how to handle guy friends then it's OK. However, you should always come first! If she is spending more time with them than you, you have every right to be ticked off. If she isn't spending enough time with you or has one of her male friends hanging around you both, or is out meeting them for drinks or coffee a little too often, then tell her "I don't share!" Tell her you have female friends too, but once you started to go with her you thought it best not to be too close to these female friends of yours. Let her know, that two can play the same game. She sure wouldn't like it if you were seeing your female friends. It appears your girlfriend is high maintenance and needs to be constantly reassured and admired. Tell her to grow up! * Give her some space, meet her "guy" friends. become friends with them. If you have proof of cheating, talk to her in a calm way, don't scream or yell, she'll respond to you better if you don't. . You'll just have two unhappy people worrying about the other. People need freedom to try new things, unless you ABSOLUTLY know she's cheating on you. == == * Personally I believe that you have every right to be bothered, you can't always help that feeling. However, if you stop trusting her, that can create more problems than just the one, thus resulting in the demise your relationship. It isn't fair to ask the one you really care for to give up her friends for you. If you think about it, her friends were probably there before you were. Whether they're girls or boys, if she says she loves them all the same then believe her, chances are she's being completely honest with you. If her friend likes her, she cant help that anymore than you can, but that doesn't mean she's to blame. Being friends with other guys doesn't mean that she cares less about you, nor does it necessarily put your relationship at risk, unless you push in that direction. Like the others have said, just give her the space she needs. Although you want to be sure she is keeping a fine balance between the two, that is how much time she spends with you and them. As long as she says she loves ONLY you, then you have nothing to worry about. It happened to me, my boyfriend almost made a mistake he couldn't fix when he asked me to put him in front of my best friend. Needless to say, he's learned to trust me more, simply due to the fact that I have never given him reason to believe otherwise.