I am afraid that this is not possible. She will be hurt. How long have you been seeing her? I suggest that you talk to other gay men who have gone what you are going through. Be prepared for many different emotions coming from her. Here is an incomplete list: Rage, anger, betrayal, sadness, pain etc...
When you do decide to talk to her make sure that none of this is her fault, emphasize this repeatedly. You must be compassionate and honest when you are talking to her. Make sure you listen very carefully to everything she has to say because what she says to you matters.
Keep this in mind for the future. How you treat this situation is how you want to be treated by someone who may have to end a relationship with you in the future. The issues might be different, but you will want to be treated in a decent and respectful way. You owe her this much at least.
Take her out on a date and tell her
Bring your date to a party and introduce him as "my boyfriend" (or her as "my girlfriend," if you are a lesbian). Or, leave a tasteful gay photobook on your coffee table, or a copy of The Advocate.
a person called dassu is gay
Get a boyfriend. Then just tell your girlfriend you found someone else.
I think he has a girlfriend...so maybe not. But you can never tell.
Just find a way to casually bring up that you're a lesbian. Such as telling him about your celebrity crush or something.
Julian Lennon has had a girlfriend before, and he is not gay. having a girlfriend or not wouldn't point to being or not being gay.
i heard he is off and on with his girlfriend but hes definitly not gay!
He is the only one who can tell you that. Whether he is or he isn`t, does it really matter??
You get as close as you can to her and whisper in her ear "I'm gay." It's easy
he is not gay. i know his girlfriend.
No, he has a girlfriend