In Texas what do you need to do if you don't want a divorce but think councilling can help you reconcile your differences?

Answer 1

If you don't want a divorce in Texas, then you should not file. Seek help with a marriage counselor.

I wasn't the one who filed and we were supposed to see a councelor before we separated but then he flipped out thinking everyone was putting thoughts in his head. He's had a lot happen in the last 2 years that I think he's trying hard to act like he's ok with but deep down he's not ok with it and he hit his breaking point thru the holidays.

I have no doubts that he loves me but to add to the grief he was already not dealing with then in feb his best friend since college died of an anurism & 2 weeks later his mother died. He's shut me out completely and somehow seems to blame me for all of this. He has what I can only call voices in his head telling him that it was me and my brother that did this and claims we implanted a microchip in his head to make him hear these voices. At first I thought it was drugs but I couldn't ever fd any proof to back it up. He now thinks I'm ju qm st trying to have him found mentally incompetent. I know this man and I don't think he's insane I just think he's tried to deny his pain and be strong for everyone around him until he just couldn't anymore. I'm not fighting him on the divorce. If that's what he really and truly wants then I can't stop him. At this point I think it's up to him to sort out his own feelings and hopefully he seeks some professional councilling but at this point no matter how much I love him I can't reach him. I can only hope he gets the help he needs