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Is it insane that I'd rather my husband have given me an STD than have a child via his affair?
STDs can be cured/treated. But this is forever and it'll never get better. It'll only get worse because one day our children will find out they have a half sibling. The wound can never heal. I just feel like an STD would have been preferable. At least no one would be able to question me for hating that the STD exists. If I hate that the child is around people call me terrible.
I understand where you're coming from. However you want to answer the question does not matter. As long as you're no longer with your husband after he cheated on you.
What else can I help you with?
How do you accept a child from your husband's affair into your family?
If your husband made one mistake in having an affair and has not cheated before that or after the affair then the child is part of him and also the biological mother. You have two options: #1 You can accept the child when and if he has custody of the child and make that child part of the whole family or #2 let him see his child if he wants too (he at least should pay child support) but see the child away from home. The decision will have to be discussed between you and your husband.
What do you do if your husband has had an affair for 4 years with one of your best friends and you find out that your husband is the father of a child born out of this affair?
Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark. Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
Does a man always get custody when there is an affair?
No, a man does not always get custody. If one of the people in a marriage has an affair, it is usually the person not having an affair that gets custody of the child or children.For example, if the husband is having an affair, and the wife wants a divorce, the woman (wife) would get the custody of the child or children, and not the man (husband). This is the same vice versa, too.
Would you stay with your husband if he had an affair that produced a child?
No. I believe a one-night stand is something a couple can work out, but if it was a long time affair and a child came of it, then it would end in divorce.
Your husband had a child from an affair Is ths kid your step-child?
Yes, it is. The child is an innocent bystander and has nothing to due with the irresponsible choices made by his/her parents.
Wife has an affair and gets pregnant tells her husband and the husband is wanting to work it out with the wife. Should they get a paternity test and should they file for child support?
If the man she had the affair with wants to know if it is his child then yes, a paternity test should be done. This will tell whether the husband or the man she had the affair with is the father. If the father of the child wants to be part of his child's life then arrangements should be made for visitation rights, but, he should agree to help support his own child even if she stays with her husband. He might agree to be called 'uncle' so the child will not know that is his biological father This is a difficult situation and it will take the three of you to agree as to what will happen tin the future. It is quite possible that the man she had the affair with my not want anything to do with the child. If the wife and husband feel they can work it out in their marriage they should certainly try.
What would you do if you found out your husbands mistress has a child with the woman he had the affair with?
i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
What can you get if your married 3 yrs 1 child and your husband had an affair and a child with them then left and moved in with the mistress?
He same if you did it instead. Most states are no fault.
Should you accept husband and mistress' child?
If your husband has broken off the affair with the mistress then your husband should do the right thing and pay child support, but that does not mean you have to accept the child into the family. If the mistress does not want the child then it is up to you whether you want to help to raise that child. If your husband is still seeing his mistress then pack his bags and kick him out and either file for a separation or divorce.
What does it mean when your husband goes to the movie with his ex and his child?
It means that he is having an affair, and you should kick his butt to the curb....
Why was Mary lum girard insane?
It's not why was she insane, it's if. Her husband Stephen Girard admitted her into the hospital on grounds that she was insane. She suffered from headaches and had a few outbursts, in this day that would not be claimed insane, however it could have been at that time. It is believed that her husband sent her there because she cheated on him, he later became aware that she was pregnant with a child that was not his own. She remained in the hospital 25 years till she died at age 56.
Your husband had an affair which produced a child his mother does not want the father to see him is he responsible for child support?
Yes, but she can wait up to 18 years to file for retroactive child support. see related question
