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Is 3 months into a relationship too soon to be in love with each other or can it be real?
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∙ 12y ago
To answer your Q, you must ask yourself:
1. What do I feel right now, at this very moment about this person.
2. Are my feelings being influenced by ohter people, (eg to fit in)
3. Am I old enough to really know the difference between real love (where two people gel to make it trully wonderful, and not by the one person), and the love someone claims to be feeling for their own gain( to not feel lonely, or for sex).
4. Why am I not already in love with this person (who made this stupid rule about 'rushing things' anyway!?!?)
5. Who am I as a person?
Straight up, if you didnt feel like you were in love with this person to start with, & your waiting for to fall in love with this person, don't get into it!!Work out what it is you 'NEED' or no less 'DESERVE' in relationship, and not what you 'WANT'. Every body wants a hot guy or girl, and we tend 2 forget about what really drives our human need, to feel loved, security, passion, touch.. but what you should focus on is what R U wiiling to do to be the best partner U can be, and is the other person feeling the same way U do?? You see, if both of you are about givng & giving to each other, your not thinking about what you R to gain from this, but what i mean as a partner, about giving, being a loving caring human being.. who you R as a person and what you stand for?
So. You should already know the answer! think about it. Dont let anybody give you advice about YOUR relationship.. only you know what you really feel inside.
And if people make you doubt yourself, walk away and have some private time to think. Dont fall in2 the trap of listening to people, who pretend to know what you need or deserve, and think 4 yourself. Use your heart and mind, NOT your surroundings to make decisions. But 1st work out, who U R. And then make the necessary changes to your self. the sooner you start doing this the sooner your character and inner wonder & wisdom will prevail, and you will ATTRACT the right person.. you wont be looking.
Ask yourself this. "Have i been in a relationship, that when we broke up, i said 'i cant believe i WAISTED so much of my time on this relationship'"????Has this ever happenned to you? it haapenned to me, TO MANY times before i learnt this basics about relationship.
DONT WAIST ANY MORE OF YOUR TIME OR THE OTHER PERSONS TIME ON SOMETHING YOUR WILLNG TO GIVE UP ON, OR YOUR NOT SERIOUS ABOUT, OR YOUR NOT SURE ABOUT.I hope this atleast made you think about what you deserve as a person. Take care & enjoy your life and make relationship something empowering, not confusing!!
AnswerYes you can be in love after only 3 months. Me and my husband said i love after 2 months and we have been together for 4 almost 5 years!Wiki User
∙ 12y ago
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