The term "sodomized" has a negative connotation, equal to rape or unwanted sexual contact. Therefore, no one would enjoy this. If you referring to anal sex play, then no, this is not an indicator of being gay, unless the man is doing it with another man.
Yes, that man would probably be considered gay by others, though he may also be bisexual or he may have been experimenting to see what sex he enjoys being with more.
There are a lot of guys who like gay sex but will never admit to themselves that they are gay. If they are only receiving oral then they can tell themselves they are not gay. I hate to break his bubble, but he is gay to some degree. He is having sex with another man. That is pretty much the definition of being gay. I wouldn't push him on it, take it for what it's worth as long as you are comfortable with the arrangement.
No, it may mean that the man enjoys the anal stimulation on his prostate. He is gay if he is sexually or romantically attracted to the same sex. If he is having sex with a woman that would suggest that he is not gay.
Straight men, by definition, do not lean toward being gay. It's impossible. If a man is gay, then he is gay.
No, nothing can make a man gay except being born gay.
They are one and the same for me. I'm a man who happens to be gay.
Being gay has nothing to do with being in prison. This is a myth.
It means that he hopes you like being with him, He apparently loves you. He enjoys your company. He hopes you feel the same way.
Yes in some Muslim countries have the death penalty for being gay
James Charles is a gay man. Being gay means being attracted to individuals of the same gender.
Gay men do not cease being men simply because of their sexual orientation. A gay man is a man, not a woman. The parental instinct of a man is called the paternal instinct. If a man identifies himself as a woman, then he is transgendered and that is a different issue than being gay.
Being gay is something you are born with. You are either gay or you aren't, but you can't choose. Also, there is no such thing as the perfect man. But there are many good men.