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Obviously, from a biblical standpoint there is the advisement against "false witness" often seen as a prohibition against lying. So, if you go from this statement, it is wrong to hide something from someone if they ask you about it or ask you for the truth.
Do Christians--both the good and the bad--lie to their future spouses? I'd say yes on both counts. Is it wrong? It depends on the reason. Is the person lying to save themselves from censure or punishment, or are they refraining in order to spare someone's feelings? To put a classic example, if a girl you like asks if she has gained weight, and you think she has, do you "unburden" yourself and tell her this? Is it worth hurting her feelings? Or do you lie and say she looks as slim as ever?
It's wrong to hide a "secret" that has had a large impact or is current in your present life (child, drug problems, affairs, convictions, etc.) I think that hiding such things as mental illnes, severe family troubles or bad finances could cause problems in the future. And when people have admitted such problems to someone who cares for them, they often feel better because the other person supports them. But not admitting to little secrets--childhood antics, bed wetting, a humiliating nickname-- is not sinful.
Answer"Is it Ok to tell secrets before marrying a person?"Absolutely! Tell him/her everything. It is wrong to hide you and your past from someone you are marrying and grounds for them to leave you afterwards.
AnswerIt is not only OK, I believe it is necessary if you are to have any sort of an honest relationship. I had an affair during my first marriage. It is not what ended the marriage, but it was certainly a contributing factor. I want my future husband to know everything because surely it would come out one day anyhow. If he is going to leave me, I want him to leave me before we get married, not after. And if he chooses to stay with me, knowing the worst thing I've ever done, I will thank God for this man and do everything I can to ensure we are happy for the rest of our lives.Well that is the very best thing you can do, tell all your secrets before the marriage that is the sign of honesty and faithfulness to a [partner.
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How can you tell when someone is marrying the wrong person?
Hi, You can tell you are marrying the wrong person if ; -you are embarrassed to be seen with them -no desire for closeness with that person -you cannot keep your eyes or mind off of other men(or woman) -Religious views are not the same
What is a trustworthy person?
A trustworthy person is someone who you believe will tell the truth and keep your secrets.
How do you know if someone is good at keeping secrets?
You can only tell if a person is good at keeping secrets from experience. If you have a BIG secret then don't tell it to someone who as a tendency to tell people. If you don't know if someone has loose lips then tell them a small secret and see if they tell anyone else.
How do you tell your wife you want children?
You should have told her BEFORE marrying her! Hopefully, it's not too late. You need to be honest with her.
Why does Juliet tell the nurse that her advice about marrying Paris comforted her?
She no longer trusts the nurse with her secrets. She tells the nurse that her advice has been comforting but this is a lie, and Juliet is just trying to get rid of the nurse at this point.
Why does Juliet tell the Nurse that her advice about marrying Paris has comforted her?
She no longer trusts the nurse with her secrets. She tells the nurse that her advice has been comforting but this is a lie, and Juliet is just trying to get rid of the nurse at this point.
What to do when someone is going to tell?
Talk to the person before they tell. Tell on yourself before they tell. Or let them tell and deal with it..
How do you tell your boyfriend that you want his baby?
By marrying him.
Does a person with Asperger's Syndrome need to tell his or her future spouse before marrying?
Absolutely! Marriage is based on trust, and keeping secrets betrays that trust! Also, not all people are able to deal with people with learning disabilities, so the more they learn, the better. Clarification: Asperger's Syndrome (AS) is a developmental disorder, more specifically a pervasive developmental disorder. Asperger's Syndrome is not a learning disability. A person with AS can also have learning disabilities. Learning disabilities include dyslexia, dysgraphia, dyscaclulia, and dysnomia.
Where in the bible does it tell of boaz marrying?
The book of Ruth.
Do narcissists keep secrets?
Answer Everyone in life keeps secrets, don't let anyone ever tell you that they don't keep secrets sick people included. Narcissists are sick people, they need help and they are known to be liars as well so watch your step around this person and always remember, what they tell you may not be the exact truth.
Why does Victor put off marrying Elizabeth?
to tell that he was sick
