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Is it acceptable for your boyfriend to ask you to remove certain friends from your life including an ex and his wife?

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βˆ™ 2006-09-01 08:32:51

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Wow, how insecure he must be! It is one thing for a significant other to express dissatisfaction or displeasure with your friends and acquaintances. It's another thing altogether to request that you remove them from your life. That shows a serious character flaw in your BF. I personally don't blame him from excluding your ex and his wife, and perhaps the friends your ex and you use to hang around with. I was married before and when I met my second husband I had the sense to leave my past behind me even though my ex's brothers and sister wanted to keep in touch with me. I didn't think it wise because being in touch with them would mean I would almost surely be in contact with my ex who was verbally and physically abusive to me and also, it wasn't fair to my new husband (even though he never asked me to give up connections with my ex's family.) Move on!

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