It depends on what they are getting out of the person. If it's just to hang out, have a bit of fun and laughs, and miss their significant other a little (absence having the heart grow fonder), then it's likely just a friendship of the opposite sex.
However, if it's them pouring all of their heart into conversation, getting affection in the form of gifts or hugs from their friend, it could be more of an emotional affair.
There are no concise statistics that men are more susceptible than women to emotional affairs. If male or females feel lonely; rejected or ignored by their spouse they can innocently find friendship in the opposite sex which runs a high risk of becoming an affair.ANSWER:Absolutely even if they hide it, it comes our during affair or discovery of the affair and this include my ex...
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Both married men and women who have emotional affairs begin innocently enough with just talking to the opposite sex on a friendship basis and the more the friend responds the higher the risk that the friendship could become sexual. Men and women simply do not think clearly ahead to know that when they may lean on someone of the opposite sex for any reason that this could well end up in an affair.
An emotional affair does not always have to involve a sexual relationship. A person who has problems in their marriage and feels lonely will often turn to the opposite sex for consolation and at first they just enjoy each other, but often the two realize they are becoming very close from feelings of being secure; appreciated for who they are; they get along and it is seems at the time it is all the things the person who has the problems needs.
Of course not ... chatting = conversation (talk) ... cheating = having an affair (sex) ... so, sex is not conversation ... talk is not an affair. Anyone is entitled to talk to anyone they so choose.Another POV:It can be. The idea that a sexual affair is the only form of cheating is a limited view. An emotional affair can be just as much a betrayal. If you are engaged in a chat/internet relationship with someone to the detriment of your physical, non-virtual relationship, then it is cheating.
Don't bring this friend everywhere you go or you will look like a player. Don't talk about her and don't mention her. The best thing for everyone is to simplify your vocabulary and end this "platonic friendship" (affair).
Infidelity is the second phase of emotional affair. During the emotional affair of the married man, sex is not included, but the connection is becoming stronger and personal for both of them. Infidelity is the next step because sex is already happening and the married man will have the behavior of missing the other woman who is not his wife or partner.
do you mean in a "i want to be with you relationship wise way?" if that's not her thing, you could ruin your friendship. i know that it tainted a friendship i had w/ a friend of the opposite sex
It is certainly not innocent if you have a friend of the opposite sex and want to keep it from your spouse. If you are truly friends with this person then talk to your spouse about him/her and ask your friend over for dinner. There is nothing to fear as long as that person truly is just a friend. Keeping it a secret only casts shadows of covering up a possible extra marital affair.
Not really. Emotional affairs are a situation where one person out of a romantic couple seeks emotional support from a person who is not their spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend. For it to count as an emotional affair, the person supplying the emotional support would have to be someone who would be eligible as a companion had the person seeking emotional support not been romantically involved already. Sex does not really supply emotional support, so it does not fit into a specifically emotional affair.
Sending a Facebook gift to somebody of the opposite sex is definitely a decent way to start a friendship with somebody you barely know. If they respond, you will know they are open to becoming your friend.