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Would you stay with an emotionally and verbally abusive wife of 10 years for the sake of being able to remain with your children?
Hardknocks80
no sweetie dump him if u truly love him let him vist 1nc and a while otherwise get a restraining order k
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∙ 14y ago
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∙ 13y agoi would stay with her for only 5 years and see my children (if i have any i am not old enough yet) in a contact centre
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What is the best age for your children if you want to divorce their emotionally abusive father?
AnswerNo matter what age children are it is hard for them when their parents divorce. Even if they are 50 years old. But if you and your husband are already thinking of getting a divorce then things must be pretty tough right now. Just be sure that when you do decide to get a divorce just let them know that it is not their fault.AnswerAny age is appropriate, as long as you get out of there as soon as you possibly can.A bit more:If your husband is emotionally abusive to the kids or to you, you need to get out now. To remain in a marriage and subject the children to any form of abuse will cause far, far more damage to them from coming from a broken home. Actually, in this particular situation, I would consider it a "broken home" - I would consider it mending their home life.Growing up with an abusive parent (verbally, emotionally, physically,etc.) can cause children many problems, both while young and after they are grown. It can result in them having very poor self-esteem, deep seated anger and resentment, etc., and it can also result in them possibly being emotionally abusive to their own children one day.So please, for yourself and your children, leave your husband now. The longer you stay, the more damage he can cause to all of you.
Why would a grown adult choose to move back with his sexually and emotionally abusive parents?
People -- overwhelmingly women -- remain in an abusive household for a variety of reasons: economic, parental (to protect the children in an abusive marriage), and psychological. But the objective obstacles facing the victim of abuse cannot be overstated. Abandoning the abusive parents frequently leads to a prolonged period of destitution and peregrination. Yes, I am 30 and I just moved back in with my abusive mother. I moved away about 3 years ago, tried to make it on my own and failed. I was depressed and unable to function. There seems to be something in this relationship, although unhealthy, that drives me to function. Pretty pathetic, right? Anyway, I'm trying to set new goals (financial independance etc) so that I can move out in about 6-8 months. If this doesn't work, I fear I will fall down the spiral of self-destruction. My life is so pathetic.
How do you get out of an abusive relationship when he is a good father?
If your kids are young and adorable, then he will remain a good father for now and just be abusive against his partner. But when the kids get older and tougher to handle in their teenage years, then there is a pretty good chance that the father will become abusive against them as well. Most abuse comes from the fear of losing control.The children aren't safe, they as well are at risk, that would be enough of an argument to pack your bags.
Your son has an emotionally abusive girlfriend He has severed all ties with all of his friends He has very little contact with us What should you do?
Tell him he needs to drop his girlfriend. If she requires that much attention and not let him hang out with his friends, then he doesn't really need her. Friends are more important than girlfriends. Girlfriends come and go, real friends remain for a lifetime.
What paraphrases Creon's response when Oedipus asks to bring his children?
You are no longer able to have things your own way; the children will remain in ThebesYou are no longer able to have things your own way; the children will remain in Thebes.
Why some spouses remain in a abusive relationship?
because it may be all the know, they may love their spouse, or may be afraid to leave. It could be a variety of reasons
Why did Hestia not have children?
The goddess Hestia swore to remain a virgin, so she didn't have any children.
Can emotional abuse turn physical how long does it take before the abuse gets physical?
Emotional abuse can sometimes escalate to physical abuse, but not all cases of emotional abuse lead to physical violence. The timeline for when emotional abuse may turn physical varies and is difficult to predict. It depends on multiple factors such as the individuals involved, the severity of the emotional abuse, and the underlying dynamics of the relationship. If you are experiencing emotional abuse, it is important to reach out for help and support as early as possible.
Does an abusive person treat a new relationship better if the new person does what they say or want?
An abusive person tends to remain abusive unless they make a real effort to change. An abusive person will always be just that and no matter how much their new mate will agree with them they will still remain abusive. Abusive people either come from a family of abuse, something has happened to them in their lives that they are extremely angry at, and there is always a reason for the way they are. Sometimes it just comes down to the point that person is miserable and loves controlling their mate because they cannot control life in general. A relationship is about sharing each others dreams and opinions and the major one is respect. Neither mate should rule over the other, but share as best they can. It's a catch-22. Abusers despise submissive and obsequious people. But they also demand automatic and full compliance with their wishes and instructions.
What percentage of overweight children will remain overweight adults?
70%
Can the judge separate a husband and wife if she feels he is a threat to the kids?
A judge cannot force a married couple to stay away from each other if they don't want to. If one party wants the other to stay away, the court has the authority to restrain them with a restraining or protective order in some cases. If the court finds that the children are in danger from one or both parents, they may remove the children from the parents' custody or restrain the dangerous parent from having contact with the children. In the case where a court finds that the husband is abusive to the children, and the wife does not stop it, and the wife wishes to remain with the husband, it is common for the court to remove the children from both parents' custody and place them in state custody because the father is abusing them and the mother is neglecting them by not protecting them from the abusive father.
If you cherish your friendship with your abusive spouse you do you maintain the friendship after divorce?
Friendship and abuse are mutually exclusive. You cannot remain friends with your abuser. You are confusing friendship and codependence. No unless you have children together then you remain in touch in a civil manner. If you stay "friends" he will only use that as another avenue to control and manipulate you. The last jerk wanted to stay "friends". I told him I didnt want male friends. You dont owe him anything.
