Your question is too cmplicated... I can't even figure out what you are asking.
How can he keep a secret from you that is about you? If it's about you, you must already know it. Not a best friend or anyone can make him do anything. He chooses to do whatever he does. He must not be very good at it if you know he is doing it.
Victoria was keep secrets from him
Always be truthful. Don't try to keep secrets. And give them a little space.
Open communication is key. Encourage your husband to share his feelings and concerns in a safe and non-judgmental environment. Try to understand his perspective and work together towards rebuilding trust in the relationship. If needed, seek the help of a couples therapist to address underlying issues.
He probally is hiding something. If there was nothing to hide he shouldn't have a problem with you reading it. Don't let him give you the old "don't you trust me" bullcrap. There should be no secrets in a maritial relationship.
when they find out about it..... y?
In "The Canterbury Tales," husbands should not try to find answers about their wives' infidelity or their wives' thoughts on which of them the wives love more. These are considered dangerous roads to go down as they can lead to jealousy, strife, and potential disaster in the marriage.
If they kept secrets from each other, never helped financially or never helped one another.
Most likely all of them. Disagree ... there are lots of committed relationships where the husband and wife have no "skeletons in the closet" ... this promotes for a much better relationship as neither have to remember what fib they told and when ... we can always remember the truth, and the truth stories never change. If holding secrets, there is always one who will know what the secret is ... ... ... You!
Sometimes keeping secrets is a good thing as some as private. In other cases, it may lead to cheating.
Avoiding the "No Secrets" rule isn't easy in relationships. However, some people are willing to allow secrets to exist in that particular relationship. It's worth talking to a significant other about.
be nice. keep secrets. ignore the negative.