Is it okay to get a massage from your boyfriend as a teen?

Answer 1

Well, that depends on several things. How long have you been dating? If you know each other pretty well, then a massage can be very nice. Rubbing your neck and back can be very relaxing and intimate. Is he massaging your through your clothing? If he is that usually will be OK in most situations. If he is taking off your blouse, are you comfortable with that? Hands on bare skin can be very nice and enjoyable, but only if you don't mind him seeing you in your underwear.

If he says he can't give you a massage without you removing your bra, this is not true. A massage on the back goes perfectly well over the bra strap. It can be more comfortable and relaxing for you without the bra, but that is your decision, not his. Only do it if you are comfortable with him seeing you topless.

If your boy friend is asking to do a "full body" massage and wants you to removing all of your clothing, this is not about a massage, but about having intimate relations. If he is really pressuring you about this, tell him he has to go first. You will give him a full body naked massage. Men have a reflex action that even if they are not thinking about sex, they may still get an erection. (NEVER use baby oil since it is a petroleum product, do not even use it on babies). Use a real professional quality massage oil that is made of fruit and nut seed oils. I think you will be pretty safe on this one.