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Is it possible to have a normal life again after a spouse has an affair?
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∙ 13y ago
It's possible with a serious comittment to change for the better. Conseling will help, and the cheating spouse better be prepared to have his/her behavior closely scrutinized until the faithful spouse feels secure again , no matter how long it takes.
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Can you love again after an affair?
I think that it is possible to love again after an affair. I think you didn't stop loving, it's the anger and humiliation that hides the love...if you want to love again you have to forgive trully. It's not easy, takes work, but it's possible. Below there's a link to an article about how to forgive a spouse for cheating, it may be very helpful to you.
Why i Had affair got divorced?
If you had an affair, your spouse must have had a very broken heart, and can not love you again, or trust you. what you do for pleasure with someone other than your spouse causes your spouse a great deal of pain, that's why it is usually frowned upon.
Can someone return to a healthy relationship after the spouse had affair?
Definatly, it depends on the affair and how far the affair made, if the person is willing to take the person back and how they feel. It really just depends on the couple and if they are willing to try again.
Can you love your spouse again unconditionally after his affair?
I'm not sure if a person can love someone unconditionally after his affair because first of all, you are disappointed at him. To build up trust and reliability, it could take a long time. however, if he truly apologizes and understands what he has done, and you forgive him for it, then you should at least try to love him. after all, he is your spouse.
Is it normal for a wife to have problem with intimacy to her husband because of his affair?
Perfectly normal. He cheated on her, how can she trust him now and be intimate? It is possible after a lot of work, but the doubt will always be there no matter how long they stay together. Trust is earned, he lost all that he had and will never reach the same level again.
How do you repair a marriage after an affair?
How? it will be very hard because the trust between man and his wife was broken. There are some couple that end up divorce because their life isn't the same anymore. And some will take very long time because the betrayed spouse will be afraid and wonder what if? could it? husband might do it again. It will be hard for the betrayed spouse to trust again especially if the guilty spouse was emotionally connected with his ex mistress. Repairing your marriage after the affair might happen but it will take you a long time.
How do you repair marriage after an affair?
How? it will be very hard because the trust between man and his wife was broken. There are some couple that end up divorce because their life isn't the same anymore. And some will take very long time because the betrayed spouse will be afraid and wonder what if? could it? husband might do it again. It will be hard for the betrayed spouse to trust again especially if the guilty spouse was emotionally connected with his ex mistress. Repairing your marriage after the affair might happen but it will take you a long time.
How can you be certain that your spouse will not go behind your back and cheat again?
If it was a one time affair then there is more hope that cheating will not occur again. Individuals do not know themselves 100 percent so no one can predict 100 percent if a mate will cheat again. There is one way to do this and this is to seek marriage counseling to help the marriage to become stronger and if the spouse that is cheating resists then they may well cheat again.
Will your marriage ever be the same after your spouse affair?
People are only human and make mistakes so if this is the first time your spouse has cheated on you and they are willing to go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with problems in the marriage then yes, there are marriages that survive an affair and end up being stronger for it.
If you gave your spouse the last chance and he move back in why in Gods name he start having an affair again?
Just plain selfish. Kick him to the curb for good . Be strong. You deserve better.
Is it normal to feel uncomfortable being around your spouse after you discovered his affair?
Yes, when your husband has had an affair and been recently caught your wounds are still fresh because he has broken that bond of trust. For the first time you are looking at your husband in disbelief and with a new perception of him. The trust is gone and until he can earn it back then you will never feel quite the same about him again because you will fear he will have another affair. It is important to seek marriage counseling and to get your husband to communicate with you more openly. Both men and women around the beginning of their 40's and sometimes older may feel they are missing something; want to recapture their youth and want to know the opposite sex is still interested in them. If your husband has not had an affair before and now that he has been caught there is a good chance he will never do it again, but you both have to approach the problem he has in the marriage in a calm manner no matter how much he has hurt you.
How will you know if your spouse is likely to cheat again after all the pain he gaves you?
You don't! That is the bad part of the aftermath of an affair - trust is destroyed, rightly so - it can take years to rebuild and some couples are never able to make it back to where they were before the affair happened. It is completely OK for you to distrust him and he needs to just accept this and better have all the right answers when you are feeling insecure and need him to tell you again and again, that it will never happen again!
