Yes it is wrong, one you should of never gotten married if you were going to cheat on them. My mother when i was young took me around the guy she was having affair with and kissed him and all and my father and mother was still together. It broke my heart and when i found out my mom was moving out when i was nine, i went into depression and been dealing with it my entire life. So keep your kids out of your affair, it is not right....you will end up hurting either way but instead of breaking their hearts by doing it in front of them, tell them slowly when it is just u and ur kids
ANSWER: Absolutely, married man do feel the challenge of hiding his second life. The thrill of lying, sneaking around just to be with his mistress, the sex that is new to him different from his wife. And most of all what makes a married man feels better is knowing he can have another woman while he have a wife.
Maybe because when he is with the mistress, he really doesn't regret it, at the time anyway. After he has his fun, that little voice in his head tells him he was wrong. Just an idea.
yes.because if you are about to get married to the person that you love a lot, and then you go and mess around with another person, yes you are definetly cheating on him or her
Eventually, yes, the wife will find out about the affair. She will either find out on her own or one of their friends may see him with his mistress and tell her, but she will find out! Cheating is selfish and cheap and shows that this married man is thinking of no one but himself and his mistress is nothing special and eventually he will cheat on her as well. There are losers all around when married men/women cheat.ANSWER:Yes she will but not at first, especially if his always busy at work, or busy with his monkey business, and no time for his wife. If he don't stop before she finds out, his problem will become heavier and their life will never be normal anymore..
he is trying to change his life around and try again
Its rather enjoying to see a wife harrass a woman who is cheating with her husband. Most of the time its the other way around. I guess the mistress is crying to you about it am I right,she's getting what she deserves and your wife should kick your butt to the curb so you can move in with the mistress. You and your mistress deserve each other, maybe your wife will find a man who really cares about her. ANSWER: Or we could turn it around, the mistress is the one harassing the wife..
Hopefully, he feels like the horrible person that he is. ANSWER: The are some married man who do feels bad because he had to stop the affair with his mistress. But when it comes to how he feels every time he sees his ex mistress, he could be thinking 2 things. One is he probably thinking that if he didn't cross the path of infidelity, his life will not be a mess from his wife. Second is he don't hold himself responsible towards you as his ex mistress. Reason is you were also willing participant with the affair. So if I were you, I will stop thinking how he feels, move on and stop being around him. there are tons of single men out there you can find. And one thing you need to know, this married man didn't hurt you, you both hurt each others be committing a sin.
The games have to stop! He is married. Tell him he has to choose, he is basically saying, he doesn't love you enough to leave his wife. You are just fun. Wouldn't you prefer knowing you didn't have to sneak around anymore? If he chooses you, make sure its for the right reasons!
Sounds like you already are cheating and she's selfish and has a twisted sense of power and a mean spirit. It's bad enough to cheat on one's wife, but to be caught cheating would really hurt the wife. Think about it! Both parties haven't got the guts to face their mates and tell them and why? Because both are playing around at the expense of dishonesty and at least the husband wanting his cake and eat it too. A mistress such as this is a dangerous one!
Because he's a a** and you shouldn't even be sleeping with him in the first place. (If you are sleeping with him and you are the mistress). He probably thinks you are obsessed with him. Not only that, but also because he see's you as a lesser human as a woman, and run only second to his wife. He doesn't see you as anything more than a booty call. If you are ok with that, then keep doing it. Cheating for him is an ego trip and by participating you are only encouraging him. ANSWER: Some married men have this ego that needs to be filled when it comes to having sex with a woman.
Why wouldn't he ? The ex-mistress is essentially his partner in crime. Both parties should feel equally awkward . ANSWER; I guess it all depends on individual. Maybe there are some married men who do feel awkward towards their ex mistress, for what reason will be a bit tricky. Some who do might be thinking the hurt they both did towards his wife made. Or maybe he felt that he destroy the life of his ex mistress. Men who have this feelings can only be answered by them. We can't really read the mind of a man when it comes to what they're thinking. Now the reason why I said it depends, the man I married didn't feel awkward towards his mistress or ex mistress. I did asked him, and his words was, 1- I can't never hate her 2- I don't think I will feel uncomfortable in front of her, or being around her, even our relationship is over. This man I marry can't and will never feel awkward to his ex mistress. It was proven to me by him.
Most mistresses are simply 'fill ins' to soothe the man's ego (feeling young again) and it is most definitely about sex. Some married men can simply get bored living with the same woman; there may be stresses between him and his wife or, they find it difficult to commit to one woman. The mistress is the exciting side of his life and he is sneaking around behind his wife's back like a snake (no glory in cheating at all) but this does not mean he doesn't love his wife. Once she caught her husband cheating he didn't want to lose her, but the mistress is the one that does lose in the end. Whether this married man and his wife seek marriage counseling does not mean they can't work out their marriage problems without help. The mere fact he cheated could have been a shock to his wife making her realize they had problems in their marriage and her husband was fearful of losing his wife and it's possible they realize just how much they do love each other and are working on their marriage.