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Why would a married man that got caught cheating and feels so bad about hurting the people around him tell his mistress he doesn't regret doing it?
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∙ 14y ago
Maybe because when he is with the mistress, he really doesn't regret it, at the time anyway. After he has his fun, that little voice in his head tells him he was wrong. Just an idea.
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If you are getting married and you are playing around with another person is that cheating?
yes.because if you are about to get married to the person that you love a lot, and then you go and mess around with another person, yes you are definetly cheating on him or her
Will a married cheating man's wife find out about his affair?
Eventually, yes, the wife will find out about the affair. She will either find out on her own or one of their friends may see him with his mistress and tell her, but she will find out! Cheating is selfish and cheap and shows that this married man is thinking of no one but himself and his mistress is nothing special and eventually he will cheat on her as well. There are losers all around when married men/women cheat.ANSWER:Yes she will but not at first, especially if his always busy at work, or busy with his monkey business, and no time for his wife. If he don't stop before she finds out, his problem will become heavier and their life will never be normal anymore..
Why would a married man start to wear his wedding ring now 3 mths after getting caught cheating when he has never worn it before and tries to hide it so his ex mistress won't see it?
he is trying to change his life around and try again
Do cheating make a man feels better?
ANSWER: Absolutely, married man do feel the challenge of hiding his second life. The thrill of lying, sneaking around just to be with his mistress, the sex that is new to him different from his wife. And most of all what makes a married man feels better is knowing he can have another woman while he have a wife.
How do you handle a wife harassing the mistress?
Its rather enjoying to see a wife harrass a woman who is cheating with her husband. Most of the time its the other way around. I guess the mistress is crying to you about it am I right,she's getting what she deserves and your wife should kick your butt to the curb so you can move in with the mistress. You and your mistress deserve each other, maybe your wife will find a man who really cares about her. ANSWER: Or we could turn it around, the mistress is the one harassing the wife..
How do you make the other woman know she is hurting the wife?
A woman that is cheating with a wife's husband (called a mistress) generally has no moral values and either needs someone in their life to constantly tell them how good looking they are while being spoiled by the married man; is a gold digger; or a needy person who cannot handle commitments and is out for support and some exciting times. It is up to the wife to confront the husband who created the mess in the first place and not try to deal with the mistress who could care less how the wife feels. The other woman always feels she has it wrapped up that she is a better prospect for the married man and believes he will choose her over his wife, but thankfully, often the husband if pressed will come back to the wife and leave his mistress. A married man seldom marries his mistress and is using her as a sex object. Often the married man will grow weary of his mistress (that's his pattern) and either go back to his wife or continue to have affairs throughout his marriage. The wife should not show fear with the prospect of her husband leaving her, but stand her ground; face him and tell him the facts are he stops the affair or the wife will see him in divorce court and the one stipulation she should make with him is that the two go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with any marriage problems that should arise. A wife that cries and begs her husband to stay only pushes him towards the mistress and the mistress is the spider in the web ready and waiting. The wife should get tough and let her husband know that she is independent enough to not need him and he can have his mistress, but she is not going to enable his cheating. Most men fold up like a deck of cards and the few that pack their bags and head for the mistress find that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence and he may well come back begging to be forgiven and then the wife has full control. Women who are victims of a cheating husband should know that life does not end after divorce and many women remarry and are happily married the second time around. The wife should say to her husband, 'I'm tying a big blue bow to your butt; slapping a stamp on your backside and mailing you off to your mistress and she can put up with your antics.'ANSWER:I agree with Ms. Marcy but mine will be different. When it comes to other woman even it takes two to tango, the mistress or the other woman can not be the one who is hurting the wife, even if she is sleeping with the married man. With all these, it got to be the married man who are the one who is hurting his wife or family. If the wife finds out yes she will think that it was the other woman who stole the husband away from her, but unfortunately it is the husband who did all of this and the wife didn't put a gun on his head so he can have another life away from his wife. If the married man didn't want to see his wife hurt, all he can do is never do it or maybe just divorce her so that way the pain that will linger to those who got betrayed will not be as bad as it supposed to be..
Is it wrong for a man to take his kids around his mistress knowing he is married and the kids mother who isn't the wife let him picked them up knowing that he was cheating on his wife?
Yes it is wrong, one you should of never gotten married if you were going to cheat on them. My mother when i was young took me around the guy she was having affair with and kissed him and all and my father and mother was still together. It broke my heart and when i found out my mom was moving out when i was nine, i went into depression and been dealing with it my entire life. So keep your kids out of your affair, it is not right....you will end up hurting either way but instead of breaking their hearts by doing it in front of them, tell them slowly when it is just u and ur kids
Why would a married woman want a married man to prove he was willing to cheat with her in front of his wife?
Sounds like you already are cheating and she's selfish and has a twisted sense of power and a mean spirit. It's bad enough to cheat on one's wife, but to be caught cheating would really hurt the wife. Think about it! Both parties haven't got the guts to face their mates and tell them and why? Because both are playing around at the expense of dishonesty and at least the husband wanting his cake and eat it too. A mistress such as this is a dangerous one!
Why would a married man would feel awkward around his ex mistress?
Why wouldn't he ? The ex-mistress is essentially his partner in crime. Both parties should feel equally awkward . ANSWER; I guess it all depends on individual. Maybe there are some married men who do feel awkward towards their ex mistress, for what reason will be a bit tricky. Some who do might be thinking the hurt they both did towards his wife made. Or maybe he felt that he destroy the life of his ex mistress. Men who have this feelings can only be answered by them. We can't really read the mind of a man when it comes to what they're thinking. Now the reason why I said it depends, the man I married didn't feel awkward towards his mistress or ex mistress. I did asked him, and his words was, 1- I can't never hate her 2- I don't think I will feel uncomfortable in front of her, or being around her, even our relationship is over. This man I marry can't and will never feel awkward to his ex mistress. It was proven to me by him.
Why would a married man joke around with his mistress thinking she kept track of how many times they had sex together?
Because he's a a** and you shouldn't even be sleeping with him in the first place. (If you are sleeping with him and you are the mistress). He probably thinks you are obsessed with him. Not only that, but also because he see's you as a lesser human as a woman, and run only second to his wife. He doesn't see you as anything more than a booty call. If you are ok with that, then keep doing it. Cheating for him is an ego trip and by participating you are only encouraging him. ANSWER: Some married men have this ego that needs to be filled when it comes to having sex with a woman.
What does it mean when the married man says he wants to stay with his wife after he got caught cheating but when his mistress asked if he's going to counseling he says no?
Most mistresses are simply 'fill ins' to soothe the man's ego (feeling young again) and it is most definitely about sex. Some married men can simply get bored living with the same woman; there may be stresses between him and his wife or, they find it difficult to commit to one woman. The mistress is the exciting side of his life and he is sneaking around behind his wife's back like a snake (no glory in cheating at all) but this does not mean he doesn't love his wife. Once she caught her husband cheating he didn't want to lose her, but the mistress is the one that does lose in the end. Whether this married man and his wife seek marriage counseling does not mean they can't work out their marriage problems without help. The mere fact he cheated could have been a shock to his wife making her realize they had problems in their marriage and her husband was fearful of losing his wife and it's possible they realize just how much they do love each other and are working on their marriage.
How mistress ruin the relationship of husband and wife?
mistress can be a big ruiner to good relationships. ANSWER: Yes a mistress is part of a broken family between man and his wife. Unfortunately it's not all the mistress ( sorry I am a wife), fault and start the messing around but the married man is. Reality check here, married men are the one that search or look for other person we called mistress. Some mistress are single, some are married but still become the other woman. Because we love our husband most of us will blame the other woman, for ruining our safe, normal, and comfortable life. It is wrong because its our husband who started all. It's our husband that meet the other woman, hide the relationship, and yes having a second life away from us. The only thing we can say to those women who are having an affair to a married men is learn to say no._" No thank you, your are married " and I deserve to meet a single man.
