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  • Most mistresses are simply 'fill ins' to soothe the man's ego (feeling young again) and it is most definitely about sex. Some married men can simply get bored living with the same woman; there may be stresses between him and his wife or, they find it difficult to commit to one woman. The mistress is the exciting side of his life and he is sneaking around behind his wife's back like a snake (no glory in cheating at all) but this does not mean he doesn't love his wife. Once she caught her husband cheating he didn't want to lose her, but the mistress is the one that does lose in the end. Whether this married man and his wife seek marriage counseling does not mean they can't work out their marriage problems without help. The mere fact he cheated could have been a shock to his wife making her realize they had problems in their marriage and her husband was fearful of losing his wife and it's possible they realize just how much they do love each other and are working on their marriage.
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Q: What does it mean when the married man says he wants to stay with his wife after he got caught cheating but when his mistress asked if he's going to counseling he says no?
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