he is trying to change his life around and try again
Because he's stuped. And because he wants to be with the ex-mistress.
it's like a back up plan. if he gets divorce he will goto his ex mistress. It not a 100 percent right there is a chance.
It seems he is ashamed to be married to you. When he started wearing the ring when he cheated he was trying to make it up to you, but he didn't want the other person he was cheating on you with to know he was married. Maybe she is confused on what she wants.
Of course at that the time you are getting married you are the groom and cannot be an usher, but after you are married and a friend is getting married then yes, you can be an usher.
For several decades cheating men always took their wedding band off if they had one so they would appear single. Women were informed more openly back in the 1940s and 1950s to look for a wedding band and some men were none too bright and would have a tan and when they took off the wedding band a white mark was left where the was on his finger and it was a red flag to single women. This has been going on for years, but apparently in these modern times the morality has flown out the door. The two people that should be interested in the wedding band is the husband and wife. By not wearing a wedding band he can con his mistress into believing she is his true love to have a sexual relationship and if he is caught or gets bored with his mistress on goes the wedding band.B:Different folks with different stroke as they say. The question is why, depends on the man who is married. And yes Ms. Marcy is correct men who is married do take it off so that way he can say that he is divorce, or in the market. No man will want to be seen wearing his ring if he is out with his mistress or what ever he calls her.From my experience the man that I married gave me his wedding band right around when he was already on a dating site. So his profile will say "other" From there on there's no guilt that he felt even though that were not divorce yet. And when I say man don't like to be seen wearing it while with other woman, this man that I married didn't either so he had the freedom to be with his mistress out dating. So those are some reason why married men never wear their ring.
Someone's getting married.
He isn't getting married
no
He is getting married in December
Yes, the wedding is off. They are not getting married.
You admit that he is a cheater. Why are you getting married to him? Listen to the vows you will have to hear from him, he will be lying to you, to your face. Don't think because he wants to marry you that it will make him stop. You have to put this wedding on the back burner and have a serious discussion about his loyalty to you and his commitment issues before you make that big commitment to him.
That's an old wives tale.