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That probably depends on both the opinion of her friends and how she is looking.

Is it wrong to change in a women's changing area? No... if you are a woman, that's okay. It is where you are supposed to change.

Is it wrong to look at another woman in an appreciative way? Probably not, if it is just a thought and you keep it to yourself, but you should respect people who are in a woman's changing room in large part because they don't want to be looked at in that way. Keep your eyes to yourself as much as possible.

... Is it wrong to make a friend a mental object of lust for a long period of time without telling them? ... Could be. Might need to either stop thinking about it, or let your friend know that you have feelings for her.

Again, though, thoughts aren't actions... they just have the potential to become so, and we don't have any legal basis to go after someone for thoughts. In addition, the friends have no idea what is going on mentally... maybe the lesbian friend doesn't find you attractive at all, and you are just assuming that because she is attracted to women, that she looks at all women in the same way. I don't think that is true for anyone. Even guys don't lust after every woman they see... they like particular ones, and fall in love with individuals.

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