I, personally, say love is right in any shape and form, be it
with a man or woman. in a world of hate, why wouldn't any type of
love be right?
I think its right to like whoever you want, female male I don't
think its right for people to judge who you are, that is not fair.
I don't judge it.
It is wrong for a very simple reason: Procreation becomes
impossible when the gay couple get together. God created man and
woman as the ideal pair. Further, he created man and wife to enjoy
each others' physical company. Infertile, whatever. No permission
is given within the realms of nature for male to go with male or
female with female. Even in the asexual reproduction cycle of
certain plants, there are male and female plant parts that
facilitate the reproduction process.
It is not bad for a few reasons:
1: Love is love. People should express that in anyway they feel
2: People should be true to themselves. When you tell someone
gay that they should not be gay then you are telling them to not be
3: Many people say that the Bible says homosexuality is
(a) Remember that was written in a time and place when and where
people would have written that God said that. However there are
many representations of God that all say something different.
(b) Besides, if God wants there to be peace and love in the
world, wouldn't being gay make more love in the world and make
people stop fighting over whether or not it was right or wrong?
(c) Try to form your own opinions about things instead of just
believing what something or someone tells you. I am not saying that
the Bible is all wrong. But there are some Christians who think
that gay is ok.
4: Why would someone go to hell for loving someone !
There is nothing wrong with being gay!!! Why would God make someone
go to hell the second they are born, just because they are gay!!!
Who cares if someone likes the same sex/gender!! as long as they
are happy! Why can't gays feel the joy of being together with
someone or marry someone like straight people do ! They are not
abnormal. To them being straight is being abnormal ! It's like the
whole racial thing ! to "blacks" we are different to them, like
they are to us !
Well I'm gay and my best friend is a bisexual she told me that
being gay is not wrong because if you love the person you're with
it doesn't matter what gender he or she is ..plus being gay, it's
like the funnest thing ever because we enjoy ourselves more than
any other heterosexual especially during sex!!
No, there is nothing wrong with being gay.
I disagree, I believe it is improper to be gay. Therefore I believe
it is wrong.
Here is my answer. Being Gay is not wrong. However, we live in a
society that is very judgmental. A society that encourages the
false concept that there is a certain way we all should be, and
this concept does not embrace individuality or diversity. Because
it is human nature for people to feel the need to be accepted,
people often lie about who they are, or try to change who they
really are in order to be accepted by others. This is one of the
reasons why some Gay people are dishonest about their sexuality.
Some Gay men still try to live a heterosexual life and in some
cases they marry women and bring children into the world, but they
are not being true to who they really are. In some cases, these men
continue to be with men and live double lives. This is what is
"WRONG." I am not defending the men who do this, but not everyone
is strong and confident enough to be who they really are if they
know that they will be ridiculed for it. The last point I am going
to make is this: I have seen many cases where Gay people as well as
straight people place too much emphasis on rushing into a sexual
relationship instead of establishing a real connection with a
partner. For those of us that want to have a real relationship,
start by having a courtship period, get to know each other and
respect yourself as well as the other person. No relationship
should be based primarily on sex, it should be based on real
If Someone who believes that being Gay is ok, and that person
happens to also be Gay themselves, that does not pose any problem
because the person does not feel that being Gay is wrong in the
first place. If a person says it is ok to be "Black" and the person
happens to be black, then there is no conflict.
We'll see, no matter what, with or without all of these opinions,
it's all people's words, I don't believe any of this came from god
himself because sin separated us from him. He is watching, he is
there, but we are disconected from our "direct link", even if it is
a sin it will definitely be forgiven as long as you try to live a
christian life in the name of Jesus, but that's not good enough for
me, I'm not happy with either decision I feel like I'm missing out
and I don't just want to be forgiven I want to be the best I can
because I love the people around me enough to set an example, and I
love myself enough to do what is right for me. Is there anyone out
there with concrete evidence that it is right or wrong, or shall we
all base this on opinion and clues !
With the 'definitely all sins forgiven' motif, there lies the
Christian approach to life in this world. The true approach that
Jesus would have taken is that sins are to be shunned. His approach
is at loggerheads with that of the Christian church, which ordains
homosexuals. This is unnatural. Christ will come again, marry, and
declare the abhorrence of homosexuality. The statement above, that
diversity and individuality is discouraged in today's society only
tells one side of the story. Individuality and 'diversification of
one's desires' are actually implicitly and explicitly embraced, as
long as they are not in conflict with the 'New World Order's agenda
for global supremacy. Since the New World Order spooks look
encouragingly on sexual depravity and disrespect for the one true
God, homosexuality is, along with oral sex, sex during periods,
Of course not, being gay or a lesbian is a perfectly natural and
perfectly normal thing. Be proud of your sexuality!!!
There is nothing wrong with gay people. The fallacy usually lies
with the observer, whose thought process has been skewed by
misinformation and prejudice.
Marriage was intended for man and women.
I believe that you should be what you want to be, not what others
make you out to be. If you happen to be a male and you happen to
fall in love with another male then that's your choice and you
should be proud. You only fall in love once.
No, it is not wrong. Being gay is simply part of who a person is.
There has been a lot of conjecture about whether it is biological,
environmental, genetic, or a combination of all three. In whichever
way being gay happens -- and most developmental psychologists agree
that it happens at a rather early age -- there is no evidence to
prove or even indicate that gay people are any more "abnormal" than
their heterosexual counterparts.
Is it 'wrong' to be left-handed ! For many years being left-handed
was considered wrong, even evil. Being homosexual is much the same
thing: An orientation that is set very early on in development.
Majorities of people have often criticized and mistrusted
minorities of people. We have come a long way in understanding the
fact that simply because a behavior or an orientation is not the
norm, that does not make it wrong.
The mantra that is chanted is that you are incapable of choosing
your sexuality. Another favourite is that 'love of any kind is good
per se, in a world full of hate'. A further parallel is that
homosexuality, because it is practised by a minority is not to be
criticised because minorities have been persecuted in years gone
by. Another idea is that somehow, this is the modern era, the 21st
Century, and therefore we should move forward and accept all
Let us look at one simple biblical and historical example.
Lot, peace be upon him, was a great prophet. He was one from a
great chain of prophets. He lived in Sodom, a town where the people
would perform acts of lewdity openly, so that it became the norm to
go naked in front of ones neighbours, friends, etc. God sent
Gabriel, peace be upon him, the chief of the angels, to destroy the
town after he had told Lot to leave. Nobody from among the
wrong-doers was spared. Yet these people were in the majority,
while Lot and his followers were persecuted in the extreme during
their time in Sodom. So, the angel Gabriel was commanded by God to
send fire and brimstone upon the town, and to lift it up to the
skies, turn the whole town upside down, and send it crashing back
down. This he did.
Firstly, on the issue of choosing and not choosing one's
sexuality - there is no doubt that when a man or woman follows
their own desires, they veer from God's path.
Secondly, the inhabitants of this town may well have thought
that their 'love' acts were better than fighting. But truly,
fighting in God's cause is the only commendable act of fighting,
and love making without good intent is an act of misguidance.
Thirdly, the truthful and upstanding Lot was in the minority,
but he never used this as a plea for others to come round to
understanding God's Truth. He used wiser and more plausible
methods. If I were to go out into the street and say: 'I'm black,
and I'm in a minority here, so support me!' you'd want to know the
PROPER reason why you should support me.
Finally, the very 'modernity' of our age doesn't give us the
right to hold ourselves 'above' those of a past age. We should be
very watchful and wonder whether things we do when we 'go forward'
in the name of technology and advancement are actually beneficial.
Limiting our families to 2 or 1.94 children for instance, is this
good ! The contraceptive pill: changing a woman's hormonal activity
- good or retrograde !
Ok, fair enough, people can have their opinion on the matter, but
the fact is ... an opinion is all it is. Being Gay is NO sin at all
... it is natural despite what anybody says. If gays weren't right,
why did God create them the way he did ! Why didn't god create gays
to be heterosexuals ! The bible is a guide, not rules ... a written
testament from what monks thought God wanted. The bible however
does state "Love thy neighbor" - this suggests that we should love
everybody for who they are - not what you believe they should be !
I'm only 15 years of age ... and it disgusts me that so many more
mature (or not so) adults think that it is wrong to be gay ... do
you not understand that society is gradually progressing ... and
you can have all the hatred for Gays in the world but it isn't
going to make any difference ! Why is it I ask ... you would rather
see two men in a street holding guns than two men in a street
holding hands. Lastly ... do you honestly think Gay people would
choose to be gay had they known that it came along with all this
discrimination and hurtful comments ! It doesn't matter who you
love ... as long as you love them ! So ... you people out there who
think that gay is wrong ... and the bible says so ... look more
into the moral messages ... after all ... if gay was wrong why does
the pope and church of England support Gay rights !
I have loved men, and I have loved women. I have loved all for the
same reason. A connection forms once you realize something special
exists. I do not believe any true feelings of a human being for
another can be wrong. Sexual feelings are part of nature. To deny
same sex relationships would be as close minded as saying that
white people and black people shouldn't date or other such archaic
No, it's absolutely fine, it's however you want to be. it's your
life, enjoy it, and be gay in a happy way and in a sexual way ! I'm
not gay, but I totally disagree with people that think it's wrong,
they are probably trying to cover up the fact they are themselves!
don't worry about being gay because it's the most natural thing, be
gay and be happy !
Why would you ask a question like that? it's like asking is it
wrong to be straight.
It is not wrong to be gay. Many people would disagree with me on
this, but their intolerance does not have any valid basis, it is
It certainly isn't wrong .... in fact it is scientifically and
psychologically proven to be natural from birth. Those who disagree
are living in yesterday's society ... Society has changed and
should continue to evolve ... just accept people for who they are
because they are no different ... just like caucasian and black
people are no different !
To sum up all that is said above :
It is deemed wrong if you are from one section of religious
background, but ok if from another.
Peoples beliefs can be very strong and the above answers have
been edited down to remove most of the hate, insults and
one-sidedness, (and that from people who proclaim to be God
loving). Religion does seem to play a large part in this question
but you should make up your own mind on what you believe to be
right and wrong. Whether you believe that religion, whichever one,
is right or wrong, is your choice.
What you need to take into consideration when making up your
mind from all you have read above or from views read or given
elsewhere is ; is it right for you, do you feel comfortable with
it, is it legal, is it moral. You are the best placed to
answers this age old question.
No, whether a thing is bad between people is really up to them. the
evil that is brought out comes from the attitudes of religious
zealots that have nothing better to do, rather then spread