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I don't think you can say you know these guys well enough that they are finding girls that look like you and you're reading a little too much into that one. I am not accusing you of any of the following. Some women can be too needy or they are always trying too hard to please the guy, or they are clingy. Men like more independent girls and although they enjoy attention from them, they also like the adventure of not knowing what that girl is going to do next, or just how far he can push her. It's a hard balance to judge each man and it's tough when to know how to be pleasing, but not too pleasing. There is a possibility that when you meet a guy you like you aren't confident and keep them at arms length and therefore, you end up friends. You may be giving off vibes that you aren't interested in them in a romantic way. You are obviously in a pattern so this is what you do: Take one sheet of paper for each man you have gone out with and only remained friends with. On this piece of paper put down all the things you like about that certain guy. On that individual paper (for each man) put down how you treated him, where you went and how you reacted if a sexual moment came up. You may simply be meeting the wrong men and many of them just want a roll in the hay and if you aren't ready then they will go on to other women who will. Don't fall into this trap and decide to give yourself up so easily because of it; you have to remain true to yourself and when you think the moment is right and you have the right guy then Mother Nature takes over. There are lots of good guys out there that like to meet a nice girl, get to know her and take it slow and easy. Don't sell yourself short. Put all the sheets of paper away for a week and then bring them out and read each one carefully. Then you'll have the answer to your problem. Good luck Marcy

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