The term "queer" is now an acceptable word to describe all members of the LGBT community. Although this was originally an offensive and derogatory word, it has been adopted by the LGBT community as an umbrella term.
The reason for adopting this insult was to turn the tables and "hijack" the insult. This turned the insult into a positive term and took away some power from homophobic people. Homphobes had their insult "stolen" from them and used to turn into something positive.
Personally, I dislike this word, primarily because of the negative connotations still surrounding it. However, you can usually hear the neutral or negative tone when you are called a "queer".
Queer is a label people usually choose when they don't wish to define their sexuality in concrete ways. Queer was formerly a derogatory term, usually used for a gay man. Some homosexual, bisexual, pansexual, etc. people identify as queer in addition ot using another, more specific label.
Yes. However, not every gay person identifies as queer. If in doubt, ask the person what term they prefer.
Absolutely NOT. The term is offensive and has always been used as a degrading phrase.
Views on this subject are quite split. Most people think that the term 'homosexual' is archaic and offensive; however, some gay people (usually older) may claim the label 'homosexual', while most younger gay people generally claim the label 'gay'. The term queer can be seen as offensive by older people who were called this as a derogatory slur when they were younger, before it became a more inclusive, acceptable word for either an identity in itself or the entire LGBTQ community. However, it is still up for debate. It's important to note that the modern meaning of the word 'queer' is a broader term, and does not exclusively refer to gay people.
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The Q in LGBTQ stands for queer or questioning. Queer is an umbrella term used to encompass a variety of sexual orientations and gender identities outside of the traditional norms, while questioning refers to individuals who are uncertain or exploring their own sexual orientation or gender identity.
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Many people use the term "oddball" to describe a very strange person. Another word to describe this term is weird. This term can be used an an adjective.
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Not exactly. Gay refers to a person that is attracted to others of the same sex. Queer is a more general term that encompasses all people who identify as something other than cisgender heterosexual people.Also, it's important to note that not everyone in the LGBT community identifies as queer. When in doubt, ask.
I am not certain what you mean by "ratchet" -- I have never heard of this term used to describe a person before. A ratchet is a machinery device.
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