Is there anything you can say to get your ex-girlfriend's love back if you love her but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend at the moment and you miss her and want her back and you are really upset?

Answer 1

I know it's painful for you, but she has decided she needs some space. It could be she just wants her freedom to better herself as far as education, a career, traveling or just to expand her horizons before she settles down. You are going to have to honor her wishes on this one. She was honest enough to tell you to your face and not cheat on you (which is really something these days.) I doubt it's anything you did so don't beat yourself up over it. I know it doesn't sound helpful to tell you to start going out with friends and hopefully start dating other girls. Just because your ex girlfriend wants some space to think over her life, doesn't mean she won't come back to you in the future. Sometimes people think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence and 9 chances out of 10 it isn't. She may come to realize this so get on with your life and perhaps she'll come back. Good luck Marcy