Love your husband but are not in love with him anymore and don't want to hurt him. Two kids involved who adores us both How do you fall back in love with him for the sake of the kids and security?

Answer 1

I realize you would love to stay with but it isn't fair to stay somewhere you really don't want to be. However, it does sound like you want to give it a try which is good - so maybe all you need is to literally put the love back into - spice it up! Send the kids to a willing family member and go on a date, spend the evening getting to know one another again - in every way!!! Remember everything you loved about him in the first place. Do this more often - have time for just you two at least once a week - its amazing what it can do for a relationship! Just sit and talk things out. You need to read the word of God. That is the BIGGEST help in love ever! Pray and ask for God's help and He will help you even if its not at first. Be pacient, it will help both you and your kids.