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My abusive boyfriend did end up killing himself after he called to tell me I just don't know how to get through this His family blames me and have said they would like to kill me Im so lost Please?
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∙ 14y ago
The decision to end his life was his own. You didn't hold a gun up to his head and pull the trigger. The family is blaming you because right now they're in shock, and seem to think that things are your fault. You're under no one's obligation BUT YOUR OWN to try to make amends with his family, to apologize, or even to offer an explanation. And it's apparent that right now is not the time to try to make amends... not when they're serving up death threats.
If his family is making death threats, and you believe them to be serious, you would be well advised to call the police and report this to them. At the very least, you might be able to pick up a restraining order against whoever specifically threatened you.
The most important thing is this: if he's really dead, there's nothing you can do now. Blaming yourself, or anyone else simply won't bring him back to life. The best you can do is just let it go, and move on with your life. This is easier said than done, but it'll happen with time.
Seek support from your friends, from your family, from your church, school, or any local grief counseling. If you have a therapist, or are insured and can get one, now is the time to schedule some sessions. Nobody just "rolls off" death, it's a painful process that takes time to heal.
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