My boyfriend doesnt call when he says he will even after my expressing frustration.he says it's bad habit and needs time. i dont buy it as i think he's just not as committed.am i beating a dead horse?

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Hello, well you said it he said it, to him calling alot is a bad habit. If he said this then it's not that he's not commited it's that he just doesn't like calling. If you really like this guy and you also like being called alot or frequently then you'll have to do something alot of couples have to do or should do when they want a relationship to last, and that is "COMPROMISE" and "NEGOTIATE". Try to find out when it's more comfortable for him to call you and have him call you then, it may not be when you want it but at least he calls you if that's whats important for you. Now if he doesn't like call you period then just ask yourself if your willing to tolerate that without compromising yourself instead of him. In essence if your willing to go half way and he's not then ask yourself if it's what your looking for, but don't jump the gun wait and analyze that way if you do have to call it quits, then you'll regret anything. Bye Bye.