if he used to do those things and stopped, he might be cheating on you. if your his first girlfriend , he might be shy, and maybe uncomfortable.
if u want 2
Yes, he should be among the first invited.
Absolutley!
If your unmarried daughter does not, of her own accord (without anyone interring) want to see her boyfriend again then the boyfriends mother should not invite 15 more people to the baby shower. If your daughter loves her boyfriend then there is no reason his mother should not be able to invite 15 of her friends, but, you can ask her to help out with the expenses.
You obviously know you are doing wrong by lying to your mom. If you can't invite your boyfriend over to your house while your mom is there, something is really wrong with him and your relationship. To answer your question: Tell her the truth...chances are she has your best interest in mind.
If she really is your best friend invite her to your party maybe she had a party with one friend and it was a girl she knew you wouldn't enjoy! just invite her and see how it goes!
Dump your boyfriend
I think that it is best that you make sure that you really love him. You should also be asking your parents for advice if you guys are going to marry.
If she is dating him, it doesn't really sound like he is your boyfriend.
you should invite how every much people you want to invite
It depends if the boyfriend doesnt treat you right then my choice would be the boy you really like.
Whatever you really want, he will get you it.