My ex gf and I got into an argument and she wants to be friends. I told her I would be dating others but I want her back and she is now seeing her ex bf of 4 years and claims he's just a friend?

Answer 1

You and your girlfriend obviously need to grow up. Threats don't help in an argument! Communication does! Everyone has arguments, but the trick is to separate for a few hours and cool off then sit down and talk it out rationally. She was honest is saying she just wants to be friends and obviously needs time alone to decide what she really wants. You made the threats to her re dating other women and now that she is seeing her ex boyfriend you don't like it and want her back. It is very possible her ex is just a friend she may see on occasion and perhaps more so now on a friendship basis because you both are dating. Sit down, be honest and try to see where your problems lay, then make a point of phoning your ex girlfriend and meet for coffee and talk out the problems in your relationship and see if both of you want to give it another shot. This time COMMUNICATE!