My ex told me her love for me is not growing in 3 months and she broke up with me then she tells me she has mixed feelings about me and her ex. She told me that she loved the way I treated her?

Answer 1

== == * There are no set rules... There are no time frames... If you went right into another relationship it was either something you were thinking about doing long before you did it or, you are too insecure to be alone or, you got REALLY lucky and found someone really special and the timing just happened to be quickly after you broke up. The only other answer is, you never really loved the first guy anyway, so it didn't take a "mourning" period, and you didn't need to fuss with the relationship. The only right answer is, look deep within yourself. You know why you did what you did. Be honest with yourself about your reasons and evaluate if the reasons were healthy. If you are relationship jumping because you just have to be with someone and can't stand to be alone, you need to be alone for a while. If you can look at yourself in the mirror and know for a fact that this was just something that happened, and you are truly happy with where you are, then don't fight it, and put down the stopwatch, trying to time everything to an "appropriate amount of time." The idea that there is this set time only makes us try and wait out our appropriate time, and never really feel what is going on in the moment. == * Fools rush in! I am now married, but when I had a boyfriend and it didn't work out for one reason or another I would take a break from having a serious relationship again to learn from the first relationship. Everyone (and ourselves) makes a good or bad imprint on our lives. It's time for reflection and to better yourself, gain strength, know what you want in a relationship. If you have known this other young man for sometime and are in love with him and left your other boyfriend then that's a different story. == == * Yes. That could cause a lot of problems. Who knows; you may start to feel a certain way when ever that person comes around, and the current person that you are with are totally invisible. That is a sign of you didn't kill the feelings that you had for that person. The best advise is to wait, it's not safe nor smart to jump into a relationship after you just ended one.