My girlfriend has a crush on a co-worker and she dumped me says she needs to be on her own to find herself.How do you win her heart back?

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You dont, you get some pride and realize no matter how great she is, you cant chase her if she does not want you. if you got her you can get some one else. let it go. Well then how can I show her how I truly am better than this co-worker? How do I show her, not tell her, that people can evolve together and a person doesn't always have to leave everything and start new just to find themselves. This happened 3 weeks ago and I've seen her maybe 4 times in total. Now work and school are back so I know she's home for now. How can she just ditch it all. She says I'm the best boyfriend in the world. I know she's seeing this guy without telling me but I pretend I don't know. I know she wants to get to know him more before making a decision but I've already started to better myself and I just want to show her that I and our relationship are worth it, we are strong. I have faith in her and our relationship. Help please, thank you. _____________________________________________________________________________ Another View You may just be obsessed with the person not in LOVE. A Loving relationship is based on dependability, compassion, respect and compromise. If you don't share those important qualities with each other then its just infatuation and not LOVE. Huh? No no, I am not obsessed with her. All of this news came to me in big boom. I'm just depressed about it now, she asked ME for marriage and I said yes. Two months after that she has a crush on some dude, is leaving to find herself BUT wishes to be friends. I'm trying to save this from total death. I can't change my feelings for her just like that. She even said to me if I had done to her what she did to me she would have kicked me out. The worst is that her ex-boyfriend did the same thing to her and now I'm paying for it. I'm not obsessed, just trying to figure it all out. Some thing Else My ex-girlfriend she wants leave me Cuz she likes another guy and i still love her and i need to get her back, in first when we began she said that she didn't find guy like me Ever and she love me and wont leave me any more she promise and she said she needs me all her life . And now she told me that love another guy and said ok but i still love her and tryin to get her back and i now acting to her, now iam doin like there's no something happened and , talkin to girls So i find that getin jelious i hope that she will call me or send text now iam waiting i took it easy cuz i know she will not feel ok and i will miss her and maybe that new boyfriend not like me See u later heY i need your help plz Thanks