No, that is just wrong *she can. it's not consider kidnapping. best bet, fight for custody. good luck.
Check your court documents. The rules for this situation should be there.
No
File a stolen vehicle report with your local law enforcement agency.
not without her permission, if you do it anyways she can have you charged.
yes
Legally, in most cases, yes. Ethically, no, not without permission.
visit his wife without permission.
Yes. If husband is not on the account.
No, a wife who you got separated cannot make copies from your military or VA medical records without your permission.
Yes it could be a surprise for his wife other the women he's with
Not unless her name is on the vehicle title.
Yes she can
Without his wife's permission NO. Billie Joe already has children.