#1...you can't even spell 'PARENTS' how in the world do you expect to be one???
#2...you, and your 14 year old boyfriend are still babies yourselves ( I know you don't think you are but trust me on this one!!
#3. It is NOT your parents, or your boyfriends parents, place to raise YOUR child! Should you decide to follow through with this plan, be prepared to work at McDonalds or Burger King for the rest of your life to support them while living in low-income housing. Maybe your child will be one of the lucky ones that doesn't get caught in a drive-by shooting!
#4 Don't count on finishing your education...I know you THINK you will but, that rarely ever happens. We'll look to see you at Social Services until your 'lucky' child turns 18.
#5. A baby is not a doll that you can put down when you get tired of 'playing' with them. They have to be fed, diapered, comforted and nurtured. They cry, sometimes all night long and many times, you can't figure out what's making them cry. Should you decide to go through with this terrible (and I cannot stress ENOUGH how terrible an idea this is!), be prepared to age well beyond your years in a big hurry. You will spend many nights with no sleep, not to mention you will be giving up going out with friends and just enjoying being a teenager. What happens when this young man you think loves you so much right now decides he doesn't really love you after all and he's not ready for the responsibility of being a 'dad'? Allow me to tell you...you find yourself raising that child all alone and not too many other men are keen on raising another man's child.
Do yourself a favor, go outside and play jump rope for awhile...run to McDonalds and get a 'Big Kids Meal", play with a rubber ducky in your bath, then cuddle up in your 'Hannah Montana' PJ's and get a good nights sleep. Wake up in the morning and focus on passing eighth grade math!
Well, I see you came back on and corrected your spelling of 'parents'. Now, when you're referring to yourself, the 'I' should ALWAYS be capitalized...it's called a 'proper noun'. My third grader knows to do that! My dear little girl, grow up yourself before you bring an innocent human being into this world...you wouldn't even be able to help to help a child with their homework!
Your Baby Boy!
Discuss it together and find out if you are both ready or if you should wait a while
Notify their parents.
the both of you should talk about it then decide if its time to have a baby
If the child is under the age of 18, she should live where the parents say she should live. They can report her as a run away.
Go For It. Aslong As She Doesnt Get The Baby Pictures Out
* Whatever differences you have together you are both the parents of your baby. You should meet your ex boyfriend in a public place and communicate to him that he has a right to see his child, but you do not love him and you are happy with your new boyfriend. It will pain him, but he'll have to accept it and if he does not listen to you and makes any threatening remarks to you or your boyfriend or he is stalking you then get the police involved.
parents cant design their baby!
There's not really anything that you CAN do to make him happy in that situation. You can hope for a baby boy, but at the same time, the father of the child should be equally supportive and loving regardless of the sex of his child. If he can't accept a baby girl, I'd say get a new boyfriend. If YOU feel comfortable doing so, you could abort if the fetus is not the required sex, but you should not do this just because someone else wants you to do so. Getting a new boyfriend when carrying a child can be difficult. I would drop him before I got started. The guy is an idiot.
If he doesn't want to wear a condom during sex.
If the ex-boyfriend is the father of the baby, and wants to be a part of that child's life, I would say absolutely! However, if he is not the child's father than I believe that decision belongs to you and you only. Only you know how that relationship has evolved.
YES. I AM 16 AND I HAVE A MONTH AND 4 DAY OLD BABY AND ALL MY6 BABY DADDY WANTED TO DO WAS BE THERE FOR ME AND MY PARENTS DIDNT WANT TO LET ME BUT MY BOYFRIEND IS 18 AND THE LAW CANNOT DO ANYTHING TO HIM BECAUSE I HAVE A CHILD BY HIM.