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Should you let your abusive boyfriend move back in with you if he agrees to get counseling?

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βˆ™ 2006-07-19 17:56:47

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I would say it needs to be the other way around. He needs to enter into counseling for a while before you let him back in. You need to see that he is willing to change first, just saying it is one thing, doing it is another.

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