"Is it true that if a wife asks her abusive husband to attend counseling and he agrees that it may just be a manipulation because he didn't think he had a problem until she was ready to leave?" Today I realized something very important. I am still angry for being abused and I've enabled my abusers to keep on abusing me not realizing that they don't know anything better or anything different. Abuse is actually a way of survival for some people. Manipulation is actually a way of survival for someone people. If a wife/husband must ask their spouse to seek help for abuse and they attend counseling because of the request and not the internal feelings of knowing they need help for being abusive the it is in fact manipulation. Get Out of those abusive relationships! It will not change only get worse. The will to change can only come from within you. If you love him give him the benefit of the doubt. It may just be that he was brought up to believe that the man should be the boss and has an unfortunate way of showing it. If he has counselling and does not change, leave.
Well, he probably doesn't mean it. Did you do anything to make him mad? my suggestion is that yous should talk it threw and if he still agrees with what he says then you should end it.
You should discuss whether he believes that he is in an exclusive or an open relationship with you. You can then decide whether his concept of the relationship agrees with yours.
If he agrees to marry you.
He is probably very shy, you should try and make the first move?
Not unless the lessor agrees to release the co-signer from the obligation and that agreement should be in writing.Not unless the lessor agrees to release the co-signer from the obligation and that agreement should be in writing.Not unless the lessor agrees to release the co-signer from the obligation and that agreement should be in writing.Not unless the lessor agrees to release the co-signer from the obligation and that agreement should be in writing.
If you still want to be with him, offer to talk over whatever it is he thinks you need to talk about. If he agrees, the be willing to listen to what he has to say.
anywhere you two agrees on
Not everyone agrees on which works should be included in it
If the father agrees, then it's fine. If not, you'll need to involve lawyers.
no Chardestar agrees! and so should all of humankind
Well if he got you pregnant, he could go to jail!!!! If he is the father.
You should talk to her and if she agrees to go out with you again then try not to mess things up again. If you make the mistake of breaking up with her again, if she agrees, then you don't deserve her.
There are no homophones for the word agrees.
Agrees - Germany
Everyone agrees on which works should be included in it
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All animal lovers which is the whole world
Take her out to a nice low-lit restuarant where you do not have to be in a hurry. Have some pleasant time together, and then gently bring up the idea of marriage counseling, in order to have a better marriage. If she agrees to it, have it all come out in the open there. If not, gently say that you have some concerns that are very serious and you feel professional intervention is in order. (And that you love her and want to work everything out.) If she still does not think counseling is needed, then you need to bring up what you thought you saw, and listen to what she has to say. After you have listened without interupting, then you should suggest counseling again. If she refuses, then you should tell her that you will give her some time to think about it, and that you, in the meantime, will get counseling yourself. When you let her talk, her needs will be manifested. That is where the healing starts. Without judgment, which is very difficult, and takes self control, you need to let her know that her needs are very important to you.
I don't believe that marriage counseling should be required for married couples. However, I do believe that it should be required before a divorce is allowed to take place, because they just might be able to save their marriage this way.