I wouldn't call you stupid ... just that the fact you love him
and want to believe him and hope that's the way things will go
down. Sorry to tell you hon, but he's playing head games. If he
needed a place to stay for convenience he could have picked a buddy
to stay with. He's using her and you! Don't feel too bad, most
women meet at least one jerk in their life and most men meet at
least one woman that isn't the greatest either. Move on!
Yes, you are being stupid! If he can pay bills with her, he can pay
bills with you if that's an issue. However, setting a standard of
self respect that low is like having "Walk on me and my feelings
anytime" tattooed on your forhead. Why don't you tell him that you
are moving in with your ex and see how much self respect he has.
How you let people treat you is exactly how they will always treat
you. Dont put up with it and don't make demands, simply say good
bye and walk away with grace and dignity.