Should you stay with your boyfriend knowing he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship and just hope that he'll come around?

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No. I went through that. It was nothing but heartache and not feeling good enough. If hes not sure, make the decision for him and end it. It is really up to you, but if he seemd sure then probably not, there is no point pushing him. Stay if having a casual relationship is OK with you, if you aren't looking for a serious relationship either then it should be no problem, its ok to have fun. But if you want more, then be honest with him. Maybe he'll come around if he feels he is losing you, maybe you'll get his true feelings. Good luck Nope, you are wasting your time. Leaving him will make him think and if he realizes you are more important than his fear of committment, then he will come after you. Otherwise, spread your wings and fly away. Find a new man who will give you what you need. Well it's up to you want yes eventually he'll come around to the idea but you have to decide if you want to continue hoping and wishing that may next week or next year or next month he's going to get serious about you and him. It's up to you no one can tell you what to do because I'm not there I don't know but if you feel like you could stick it out without having a serious relationship then go for it otherwise let it go. Its totally up to you but in my opinion you should "take a break" if he misses you and decides to come around then you know he is worth it..otherwise you'll know to move on and find someone who is worth it.. Drop him like a hot potato and let him sweat. He will come back like a dog with hsi tail between his legs and if not then he wasnt worth it. You be the boss more. Its spose to be mutual in relationships and he has too much power. You take some back!