Why would one want to? This is not going to solve the issue. It's already been done. One should be communicating with the spouse and seeking professional help to resolve what ever one thinks is left in the marriage. I would not do that. What if either you or he becomes violent? Do you want to spend time in jail on top of everything? I'm sorry to hear this is going on. You are going to confront the wrong person. It should be your wife that you should be talking too. Please don't sit by and allow this behavior to go on. Neither sex should be playing these games. Just have it out with her (try not to yell because you'll just lose control of the situation.) She has 2 choices: #1 ditch the guy she's seeing or #2 YOU will leave her! You don't deserve this sort of treatment and let her know loud and clear she is "replaceable!" Good luck Marcy
It is not written in stone that a married man having an affair should talk to his wife about it before breaking up with the woman. If he finds he has made a mistake; sorry for what he has done then he should immediately break it off with the other woman; be honest with his wife and tell her about the affair and why he did have the affair. Hopefully both can calmly talk about it; perhaps see a marriage counselor and get their marriage back on track. However, once that bond of trust is broken it will take some time before the man can earn his wife's trust back.
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Word-of-mouth.If you think that your wife is having a affair is better to talk to her.
what do you mean should you let her have an affair. If you wife wanted to have an affair she does not need your approval. Did, you get her approval. You sound somewhat stupid.
Talk to him. Don't tell his wife until you have talked to him, if your best friends he will appreciate that you went to him, and also talk to your wife.
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
You should talk to your wife.
No, just go after the person that is in the affair with the wife... you can get him for Breaking up your marriage in some states, I would check it out... ( But remember it takes two for a affair to happen, so who is really to blame , him or her??)... BUT you had better have Positive proof its happening, also is he married, if so talk to his wife... You can get him fired (and her) if you talk to their Boss about what is happening at the work place. Good Luck
They are scared that their wife will be upset with them.
No. Let sleeping dogs lie.
No, keep cheating and dont get caught.
Just let it go unless you want to lose the wife's friendship also.