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Should you tell a narcissist's victim about who he really is in an anonymous fashion even if you are worried about his rage and revenge if he discovers someone is trying to unveil him?
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∙ 16y ago
I have the same question!!! So many things to consider. First of all, Ns are very charming and I'm sure he/she has already brainwashed their victim. I'm guessing even if you come forward the victim will probably not believe you, at least at first. The narcisist has probably prepared him/herself for the potential exposure of his/her ill deeds. I truly understand your plight, however. I think you should try to warn the person if you feel it is the right thing to do but ONLY after careful deliberation and preparation. You must do this in a way that will put in you in the least vulnerable position possible. Try to be anonymous as you've said but make sure you have a restraining order or something to back you up. Keep away from the N. Any reaction to them will stroke their deluded ego. If the N comes after you anyway, do not show fear. This will drive them crazy. If after warning the victim they still don't believe you and the narcisist has it out for you, at least you will know that you did what you felt was right. Of course this all depends on how important that feeling is for your inner resolution and closure. It is easy to say these words to you but I know how hard this decision is. I am going through the same thing and it keeps me up at night. Hence why I'm on this site at 3:30am when i have to work tomorrow. Answer Hopefully, the new person will think to check in with the ex (you) and then you can be honest with them. The deal is, that the next person is not you and will take in the experience at their own pace. Stepping in to inform them will just reinforce what the N says about you and your message will be lost. Take care of yourself and be there if a call for help comes.
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