Here's the thing, if she is moving pretty far away, and you two will never see eachother, possibly again, or very rarely, then it might not be such a good idea, I'll give you some pro's and con's.
-If she doesn't feel the same, she may never want to call you because it would put up a wierd wall in your friendship, and she'll always feel like you are just trying to win her over. she'll be aprehensive about this because of distace and the lack of chance that you'll ever be together.
-It may cause her guilt if she decides to get a BF wherever she moves to, and won't want to tell you.
- Okay, say she does feel the same, then she'll want to see you a lot, let's face it, girls are clingy like that ( I should know, I'm a girl ), it would cause a lot of arguments because you won't be able to, and of course depending on the person, it could cause intense jealousy.
So, if you'd like to sever your friendship in the long run...sure. But, don't think because you're 14 that you don't love just like any other person, my BF and I started dating when we were 13, in 2002 and it is now 2007, and we are still happily together.
If you'll get to see her a lot, then tell her.
Both of you should not date so and so.
If you really love (as a friend) your friend then maybe you should give him a chance with the girl or both of you just leave it behind and continue on with your lives and see what happens.
ask him out
be friend
You said you were in love with your high school friend, but didn't mention if he/she was in love with you. Marriage should be taken seriously and since both of you are married then let it be. Sometimes people want what they can't have. If it turns out both of you are in love with each other then have the guts to tell your spouses and don't cheat!
talk to that friend.
of course! your friends with love you no matter what x
If you both love each other then go out together and it doesn't matter if he is your brother's best friend or not. You do not need permission from your brother to date his best friend. It would be wise if you both started to date that you give him some free time to spend time with your brother.
no
no,you should not because you love him not youre friend so you should stay with him.
If the best friend has a relationship with the person, it is advisable to stay away because there's nothing worse than your best friend breaking a friendship because of complications you may have caused between your friend and his/her partner. If the person is sweet-talking you both and playing with both of your feelings then he is not worth it because he's just toying with both of your emotions and that's not right. If the relationship is still in the early stages still stay away and just be happy your friend has someone to love.
tell him how you feel and then wait for his reaction.................. wait for her because she is my friend and he is my love.....................