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I would back right off and let him come to you. No matter how painfull it is, move on and let him come to you. You have told him you loved him, he now has enough information to either realise what he has lost and come back and be nice to you or he will move on. I would let him see what life is like without you. Make him sweat. That means no phoning him. If he calls you, keep is short but be pleasant. Do not show emotions. If he asks if your upset just say Im living my life and doing whats right for me. Try to avoud running into too. I hope it works out for you, I know how badly this can hurt. Either way you will be happy in the long run if you do what is right for you and never let anyone treat you badly.

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Q: Should you try to get your ex back if you told him you loved him on your 9-month anniversary and he broke up with you?
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