Should you worry when your granddaughter is dating a LDS member if you don't believe?

Answer 1

I wouldn't be too concerned. Most members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (the LDS or "Mormon" church) are good, normal people. Of course there are a few nuts in any group, but generally I'd say there is nothing to worry about. Mormons as a whole tend to be healthy, clean cut, educated, and actively involved in their local communities. They don't drink, don't smoke, don't have sex before marriage, and are known for having conservative moral values. His theology may differ from yours, but it is unlikely he is a dangerous or abusive person.

If you are concerned, consider inviting him over and asking him your questions or addressing your concerns in a respectful manner. Most Mormons are happy to discuss their faith and answer any questions with those who are sincerely curious. I suppose you may be concerned that your granddaughter might convert from her current faith to join his. It's possible, but it's just as likely that he might learn more about her faith and convert to join her. Perhaps, they can just get along going to different churches. The LDS church places a high emphasis on agency - the ability to choose for oneself - so I wouldn't be too concerned about her being coerced or forced to become a Mormon.

If you'd like to learn more about Mormonism generally to understand more about your granddaughter's boyfriend and his background, I'd invite you to visit the Church's official websites. Mormon.org is meant for visitors and shares basic beliefs and profiles of everyday Mormons. LDS.org is mostly geared toward members but contains a wealth of information - every official doctrine, belief, or stance of the church can be found here. You can also contact me through my profile here on WikiAnswers or, of course, ask your granddaughter's boyfriend.

Answer 2

No, LDS members are very good people. We are loving, protective, and well mannered.