No way your boyfriend should not to talk to his ex about you guys because it would mean he would be trying to make his ex jealous amd come back to him and it would also mean he is just using you to make his ex jealous!
This is to all the girls who have boyfriends and is doing what the question ssaid.
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if you trust him/her they should be able to talk about any thing they want on the phone. if you don't trust that person you should be with them.
it honestly depends on what they are talking about. if you trust your boyfriend then there should be no problem, but if there is a trust issue then maybe you should be worried. but then again it really does just depend on what they are talking about!
Well my current Boyfriend explained to me (when I was talking on the phone with my ex almost every evening) If he's not doing anything for you why should you give him a reason to talk to you every night? Is he really your friend or are you two just reminiscing about the past? I found that helpful. I wasn't hanging out with my Ex Boyfriend, I was talking on the phone with him. It's not helping me in life, but of course it feels good when you have the opposite sex on the phone. Allow me to add to that answer: If your boyfriend is so insecure and self-centered that he can't allow you to honestly have feeling for someone you were once married to, back off from the guy. A self-centered and possessive guy never makes a good boyfriend or husband in the long run. Here's another point of view and the honest thing to do. He's you're ex, leave it at that! If in doubt put yourself in his shoes .. how would you like your boyfriend talking to his ex? I doubt you'd like it very much. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your present boyfriend and I'm siding with him! You're playing both ends against the middle and you know it! You have the opposite sex to talk too ... your boyfriend! Exes are exes and should remain so. Again I stress, put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes. He's not controlling or possessive, he expects you to do the right thing which is leaving the past in the past. Instead of talking with your boyfriend about your hopes and dreams, you are constantly on the phone with your ex boyfriend. Who are you kidding! You're titillated by talking with your ex. Move on!
You should belive your boyfriend if you really love him and have trust in him.
if he's your ex then why do you care if he's still talking to his ex ? get real .
He misses her....?
tell her "that was the past, its done, its over with. I'm your boyfriend now so just stop talking about him." that's what you should tell her
Stay out of it! If the both of you girls are living together then have a talk with your girlfriend and tell her to deal with her ex and he's to stop calling on your house phone. It appears she instigates it by talking to him and that just encourages him even more. You can get "Caller ID" and if you see it's him (or your girlfriend does) then let the phone ring. If she persists on talking to him you have two options ... have her get her own private phone (or have him call her on her cell phone) or ask her leave. Put the ball in her park!
No it is not cheating as long as you were not talking to your ex as if you two were going out. Also you need to tell your boyfriend that you were talking to your ex because how can he rust you if you tell him lies and if he cant trust you that will lead into a breakup
then you break down crying or deny everything with a good sob
Questions you should ask is why does he want to harm your ex.
If you really want to talk to your ex as just "friends," then you should have no problem telling his parents that. It's that easy.
If your ex does not have a boyfriend or is not married and only dating then phone her (don't text her) and ask her if she will meet you somewhere and then discuss how you feel about her.