Should your wife communicate to her ex boyfriend?

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I would put that to a stop if they had a a deep relationship prior to breaking up or if they broke up not too long ago.. Answer It depends on your trust level . I would say YES, as long as you can be included, lol. Maybe it's not that you don't trust HER, you probably don't trust HIM, and I wouldn't blame you . He's snooping around for something because if it was friendly, it would NOT be done in a disrespectful manner and you WOULD be included. Honestly, your wife should respect you enough to NOT even think about communicating with her ex. Doesn't seem like she's thinking about how YOU may feel, or how this could taint your marriage and trust. I'm quite sure she would NOT be able to take YOU communicating with your ex. I look at it like this: If we ALL CAN'T be friends, then NONE of us can be friends. This is only if you want to compromise with her but MOST men would NOT allow this, especially if they're MARRIED. IT IS JUST AN OPEN DOOR WAITING FOR ONE OF THEM TO WALK THROUGH! Ask yourself: "Why do they STILL need to communicate? What the hell do they need to talk about?" It CAN'T be closure because that should have happened BEFORE the marriage. If you ask me, he doesn't deserve ANY of her free time because he didn't make good of his OWN time when he had her, and she shouldn't have ANY time to give to him. She should be making him eat his heart out over the fact that she's married, and he CAN'T have her OR ANY of her time. Hope this was helpful. Good Luck