What are some things you can talk to your boyfriend about because you think he will break up with you because you don't talk to him or around him?

Answer 1

Usually when a boyfriend and girlfriend are together they should be able to talk to each other and as they get to know each other they should be able to talk about anything. I find it odd that you are having such difficulties talking to him and you must have a good reason. If he has threatened to break-up with you simply because you don't converse with him enough then he isn't worth being around. However, you have to ask yourself what is stopping you from talking to him about anything you choose to talk about. Sometimes boyfriends can put pressure on their girlfriends to have a sexual relationship before the girlfriend is ready and if the guy is a jerk he can threaten to break up. I went through that at the age of 16. I stood my ground, the guy left me for a girl that would "put out" and he went with her 2 months and cheated on her. I was so glad I stood my ground on this one and realized he wasn't the type of guy I wanted around me. I wanted to have my first sexual experience when I was ready and I wanted it to be a beautiful thing and not a "rushed job!" If you feel up to it perhaps you could re-post and express why you find it so hard to talk to your boyfriend. I feel there is something else going on here. THINGS TO TALK ABOUT: Bands you like; What type of music you like ... rap, pop, rhythm and blues, country, etc.; What movies you like; What actors you like; Try getting to know a little about a sport he may like or ask him about the sport he likes; Talk about things that interest you in the world and what interests him; Ask him what he wants to do in the future; Hope you re-post your question and tell us why you find it so difficult to talk to your boyfriend. Marcy