you can be prosecuted for forgery or worse attempted theft
Both spouses are responsible for the DEBT represented by the lien, but the lien can only attach to the interest of whoever is actually on title to the property.
Any owner of real property must sign a deed in order to transfer title to a new owner. If both spouses own it then both spouses must convey it.
Of course. It's addressed to you.
no
both
Usually the filing of the death certificate with the title is enough to insure title is transferred. The executer of the estate will usually take care of getting the title transferred.
Yes
If your names BOTH appear on the title - yes - you will both have to sign.
Not in NY state. Others may be different. Check at your DMV.
Yes they do
Both names should be on the title.
take her to court. Beware the judge could just as easily rule in her favor, since both names are on the title.