Girls can usually tell if you are interested in them and they are just waiting to talk to you but they don't want to start first. If you can find something to get the conversation started it can act as a bridge to get things rolling. For example:
If you are in some classes together try to get teamed up with her like in a lab class or when there are group assignments. That way you have to discuss class stuff and it can help lead into other conversation.
Some people find it easier to say things in writing. Can you email or text her a question about school or homework or plans for summer? Can you see if she has a Facebook page and send her a message saying "hey, I was just looking up some people from school and came across your name so thought I'd say hi." Then leave it and see if she answers back. Maybe emailing and texting will break the ice before actually talking to her.
Is she old enough to work during the summer? If so find out where, and if it some place you and some buddies can go to then do that. Maybe one of your buddies could ask her a question to get things rolling. After that if you see her you can always ask how work is going. If you go to her work enough times (especially by yourself) and make it a point to catch her eye and give a little wave or head nod, she will get the idea that you are interested.
Or the one method that tends to work pretty good is talk to one of her friends (if you can) and ask her if she thinks this girl would talk to you. You could also tell the friend you're not sure how to approach her and does the friend have any suggestions. You can bet the friend will let her know you were asking about her or she may give you some hints on getting over that first hurdle.
You just have to get started and you obviously know how hard that is. Just remember - girls WANT you to single them out to pay attention to them. They WANT you to talk to them. They WANT to feel like someone is interested in them.
So just tell yourself over and over "She wants me to talk to her and she is just waiting for me to start."
speechless or rock my world
When you are talking to the girl just say something like "your really fun to talk to" its as easy as that! I am a girl and if a guy said that to me i would be so happy i would be speechless!
I think it's really not normal i mean 12...........[SPEECHLESS]
you cant really get a boy not to like another girl. Its like trying to get you not to like the boy you do like. I know it stinks but you can try to get him to like you instead of that other girl. Show him your personality, become friends then see what happens. :) i hope this helps
In my experience, I have learned that if you like a girl you should try to find out her personality so you know how to make her laugh or smile. And once you have done that a few times, now you get to know her!
If a guy gets speechless when he sees you in a dress, it does not necessary mean that he likes you, he could only be driven by lust.
if every time you pass by him or her you either smile at the person or blush, when you talk about him all the time , and you become speechless every time he talks to you, or when you are in a conversation and you feel like the only people in the room
no its not wrong if you dont like the girls that like u then it dont matter about trying to get another girl to like u only if you like her more then the two girls
she will think you like her trust me i am a girl
It depends on the compliment. If you make a crass comment (or a compliment, in your mind), the girl may feel that you only care about her body, and, in that case, she walks away offended. If you make a kind, sweet compliment, she may either be surprised and speechless. She may like you, and feel shy and awkward because you complimented her. As long as you treat a girl with respect, she will become comfortable around you.
Well, it all depends on the type of girl you like, her personality, and what type of friends relatioinship you have.I recommend trying to become friends with her first by trying to invite her to play a game, or try to play with her. Then you guys will feel more comfertable talking so it wont be awkward.
They're obviously trying to make the other girl jealous.