What can you do to make your husband talk to you and spend time with you?

Answer 1

Here is what I would do Ask him if he loves you and when he says yes(if he doesn't hunny you have some serious issues) you should say as cliche as it sounds we need to talk. Set aside an evening for the two of you at home preferably. And order some nice take-out or cook yourself depending o your culinary skills. And use the time to talk about whatever it is you want Best of luck. You can't make him - nagging him will only push him further away. You need to make it more desirable to be with you than anywhere else. Try and understand that he needs his own space too, organize a day for you two to spend together - just the two of you! Tell him in advance so he knows and wont make other plans. Organize a nice day, where he can do what he enjoys whilst with you, and iniate conversation casually. Dont make it sound serious it will just scare him off. Show him you understand his need to do his own things, even say to him, "Why dont you go down the pub with your friends" or whatever he does, giving him this freedom will more likely make it easier when you ask to spend time together. Well for the most part you know your husband better than anyone else so you know his likes and dislikes and then take it from there so if he likes Baseball sit with him during the game and cuddle up next to him and if he likes that bring him a drink and bake his favorite dessert make his favorite meal go rent his favorite movie and watch it with him or go see the movie he's been waiting to see. Dress up in that dress he likes and cook that dinner I was talking about. With the conversation start it off small yet simple ask him about his day and don't talk about your self unless he ask let him talk to you ask for his help with something greet him when he comes through the door with a hug or kiss. Don't talk about the kids if you have any. Ask him about stuff he likes just make him feel like were getting somewhere. If your at work invite him to lunch. It's hard to tell you what to do because I can't tell you what you want or need but you know just talk to him about whatever you want to say but don't nag him just talk to him and ask can you ask him some questions. Just go for it. You can't make him do anything. However, you may suggest marraige counceling. A husband who doesn't spend time with his family will lose his family. I have seen women who end up leaving their husbands for another man because the other man gave them attention. If he is starving you for attention, it is abusive to the relationship and you both need help.