What do I do if I think my dad is having an affair?

Answer 1

• You should have good suspicions at least and don't jump to conclusions. If, for example you have seen your father talking to another woman or have seen them having coffee or a drink together she could be an old friend or a coworker and they are talking about business matters and this does not mean he is romantically involved with her. You should have a close enough relationship with your father that you could see him in private when your mother or any siblings are not around and be open and honest with your father. Example: 'Dad, this has been on my mind and I need to be honest with you. (give the reason you suspect him) and I hope I'm reading more into it than it is?' Your father may be honest about it or, if he should be having an affair he may cease the affair knowing that you know. One sure sign is if he asks you if you have spoken to your mother. If he is having an affair behind your mothers back then tell him he is putting you in a difficult position and he has two weeks to sit down with your mother and tell her or stop the affair or you will because you are caught between two people you love the most in this world ... your parents!