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What do I do when my husband has been in prison for over a year and his brother was supportive of me and we've been having an affair for 6 months and believe I'm in love with him?
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∙ 7y ago
You didn't say if your husband is still in prison; is just getting out of prison or he is out of prison. No matter what the case there is no excuse for cheating.
With your husband in prison for over a year I am sure you meant to be loyal to him and things happen, but this is still no reason to cheat. If you felt you were in love with his brother you should have had the guts to visit him in prison and tell him. It would be wise for you and his brother to take some time apart so you are sure it's not 'lust in the dust' instead of true love. You have a lot of hard thinking to do. You have to decide if the reason your husband went to prison is enough to have you wait and live with him or divorce him. What is his brother like. Sometimes in families 'rotten apples don't fall far from the trees' meaning his brother could be like your husband, or, he may be a nice guy.
Because you used the word 'I believe I'm in love with him' you gave a good hint that you are not quite sure if you love him. You are certainly confused and before you light that TNT it would be wise to take that break from your husband's brother and start thinking of what your future would be like. Learn to be more independent and don't always feel you have to have a man in your life to get ahead in this world.
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Answer2: These things never end well. A broken trust between brothers and marriage mates, sad indeed. Your husband even thoug in prison deserves more than this.
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What is law when husband have affair with his brother's wife?
There are no laws about immoral activities such as infidelity.
Did I do the right thing by telling the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband?
No, it is not a mistake to tell the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband. However, some wives can be in denial and they may not believe their husband is cheating, but most do.
Who would you believe your husband or his ex mistress telling you that their affair wasn't plan?
If she is trying to get him back, or still wants him.. Then I would believe your husband. If she is absolutely done with him, then believe her. Good Luck!!
Who did Sharon have an affair with in eastenders?
Phil Mitchell, brother of her husband at the time Grant Mitchell.
Why did Cleopatra have an affair on Ptolemy Xiii?
Cleopatra never had an affair with Ptolemy XIII. Ptolemy was her first brother/husband, but they hated each other. Their "marriage" was only a symbolic one, as were her other "marriages".
Would you stay with your husband if he had an affair that produced a child?
No. I believe a one-night stand is something a couple can work out, but if it was a long time affair and a child came of it, then it would end in divorce.
Would you believe another woman's husband who contacts you and tells you that his wife TOLD him that she had an affair with your husband but when you ask her and your husband they both deny it?
It is not always wise to believe gossip. It could have happened, but unless you know this woman's husband you don't know if he's the jealous type or thinks his wife is cheating with every man she talks too. Have a discussion with her husband and ask what proof he has. If he has no proof and you obviously want to get to the bottom of this mess the hire a private investigator to find out if your husband and his wife are having an affair.
What are the symptoms when your husband has an affair?
if he is accusing you of having an affair, when you are not.
What to do if your husband and sister had an affair?
Divorse to husband , breakupwith boyfriend
Can you sue your husband for having an affair?
No
What do you do if you classify your husband affair material?
ANSWER: Even if your husband is an affair material, that will not be his legit reason why he is having an affair. It can't be that he is not getting his needs at home, it will explain why he ask you to marry him if he will betrayed you.
How can I explain my affair to my husband and that there was no intimacy?
You will have to think very clearly about telling your husband about having an emotional affair. Most men do not believe a woman can have an emotional affair and not have a sexual relationship. There is a high possibility that your husband may not believe that when you had an affair there was no sex involved although this is highly possible, but not in his mind. What you can do is learn good communication skills and you must have had your reasons (that clouded your judgment) to have an affair and you need to deal with these problems. Take time to think why you felt the need to have an emotional affair in the first place and then sit down with your husband and express why you are unhappy in the marriage and perhaps seek Marriage Counseling or the two of you could make a better effort with each other to make your marriage a more solid one. Once you have broken that bond of trust with your spouse it is difficult to gain their trust back.
