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As long as it's just looking, there's no more or less harm if a wife looks at other men than if a husband looks at other women.
Low self-esteem, perhaps combined with justified suspicion, perhaps not.
Married or not most men look at other women, but some are just more sneaky about it and it's normal. Women often look at men as well. If your husband is continuously looking at women while with you and makes any inappropriate comments then let him know how you feel and that you don't like it.
There is no scientific proof that Libra women are always looking for someone for sexual favors.
Some men look at barely clad women or nude women online because it is the next best thing to looking at these women in a pornographic magazine. Cheating is when you actually take action to contact a person online. It is time you sat down with your husband and communicated on a better note and let him know you do not appreciate him looking at barely clad women.
Ephesians 5 (especially 22-28) speaks to how we all are to be towards each other.
we kill our husband
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I'm a woman and I stare at men. I don't do it enough to ever disrespect my husband, but if I see a good looking man I'll mention it to my husband and he does the same when he sees a beautiful woman. We are extremely confident in our relationship together. To me it's like looking at a fine piece of art. You can look, but don't touch! Looking at women or women looking at men doesn't mean they are going to cheat. There is always a risk that a man/women could cheat. Discuss it with your partner and ask him if he thinks his friend would cheat. He should know his friends personality.
You are wise by asking the question, "Why do women blame the other woman when it is the husband who pursues and starts it all.' Too many women are so jealous over the 'other women' they forget that their husband has started the affair and it is the husband they should be going after and not the other woman. It's a turf war ... single women or even married women that start an affair with another woman's husband is heads up for a real war. The husband sits idly by and secretly I do believe that most men who have affairs on their wives enjoy two women fighting over him. Smart women have it out with the husband and do not bother with the other woman.
That is totally for you, your husband and the other woman to decide.
Chill out, looking is allowed.