What do you do find true love when you're a 13 year old girl in middle school and have had a lot of boyfriends but now you want one that will love you back?

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I agree! But sometimes people who work small usually get successful and make sure who you love is smart and you'll be just fine.

You're only 13! You shouldn't be worrying about love. You need to worry about your education especially in these hard economic times. Do you want to work at McDonald's? Dear 13 year old girl, I am a man who is 50 years old and married to the love of my life. I met her in school about that age and "knew" she would be my wife. I think when you meet the right person you will know it too.

I'm a thirteen year old girl too and I love this boy in my class and I think he loves me. His name is Brad and he's so handsome and kind but someone else likes him too. So we made a bet whoever kissed him first gets to keep trying and the loser has to back off.

Do not be hasty (in a hurry) or sell yourself short, remember that if someone truly loves you they will want what is best for you and put you above themselves. They are not greedy nor will they ask you to do anything that you feel uncomfortable with (like sex). Too many young people fall into that trap and it hurts them for all of their life. My wife has given me 8 beautiful children and numerous grandchildren and the grandchildren are still coming.

I AM PROUD to say I remained a virgin until marriage and have never cheated on my wife! It has kept our marriage strong and I have never been sorry, or had to say that I was.

Be patient, Prince charming will show up when you least expect it.

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I'm a 13 year old boy and I am in love. And the girl I'm in love with I've never asked out and never had anything but a friendly relationship with maybe you should start out with now a friendly relationship and work you way up that's what I'm doing with this girl I know she will be the one I marry its almost like I can feel it as fate and as soon as you feel it you will know he is the one I hope it helped".

You should never actually "look" for the one you love, just take life as it comes. Like people above said, you will know him when you see him (or at least meet him XD). A lot of young girls think they need to be in love, but just take life as slowly as possible. I, for one, believe you are NEVER too "young" to be in love, you just have to be mature enough to know it.

Hey You Shouldn't doubt yourself and think that a guy doesn't like you, if you ever think that in your life you are being a idiot no offence! I have had lots of boyfriends in 10 years of age, I believe that if a guy likes a girl a lot and he asks the girl out she should at least give him a chance unless they are like stalkers or lots of age older. I have a boyfriend and I gave him a chance, most of my relationships with guys have gone very far so trust me on this! do not ever judge a guy on just there looks most of them turn out to be really good guys!! Well I hope u listen to all of these answers!

I'm a 13 year old girl and I like my best friend, and he ended up finding out. I don't know how but it sucks anyways don't "look" for the right guy, just wait for him. I know it isn't fun but good things come to those who wait.

I'm a 13 year old girl as well, and haven't had a boyfriend since last year but I met someone a few months ago after waiting 11 months, and he has changed my whole life without even knowing it. It's true that good things happen to those who wait! it happens when you least expect it; but don't worry for now because you don't want to wish your life away as for we are so young! don't look for love as love will find you and don't look for him as he will find you. when I stopped thinking about love it surprised me that it came for me the moment I forgot. wishing you the best.

I am a 14 year old girl and all I have to say is when I was 13, I waited for a guy to love me the way I loved him so I hope you will too

I am a *87 years old woman and I think you should get over yourself. Hun, you're thirteen. You don't even know what love is. Wait until high school when you can actually go on "real" dates with people.

I'm a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend and I started out as best friends and I always had a feeling that was going to be it. However, one day I got a weird feeling and he told me he felt it to. The next day he told me he loved me, I realized that was what I was feeling was love. Love shows up in many ways my boyfriend believes that I'm ''the one'' and he wants to marry me and I feel the same. So, just hold on and the right guy will come in many ways but he will come! Just give it time!

Stop looking for love at 13 years old, cause all your going to find is either a creepy old guy or a boy your age who is "looking for love" yeah right, slow down, your just a kid, let love find you! don't go looking for it. Because the more you search the harder it is to find.

You just have to wait till he comes and when he comes you will know for sure, and that will be when you will have a warm feeling in your heart, which tells you that you are the luckiest girl in the world to have found your true love. I'm 13 and have never had a boyfriend. But I know that by that time everything will be very easy, even through the hard times because you will always have your man to lift your spirits up high and keep you going. So even though I am your age, I have a feeling that it will always works out if you are truthful and honest. So just be patient and he will come to give you that warm feeling inside of you.

I'm a 14 year old girl and met my bf in 6th grade. I am in 8th grade now and we are still together. He is my best friend and lover and he's amazing. He writes songs for me, he doesn't care if we cant make out (we haven't done anything but soft kisses for like a year), even if the more beautiful girls walk by he wont take his eyes off me, and we can deal with each others imperfections. Of course we go through our doubt periods but if you can get over that then its possible he's the one. When I look in my future all I see is him we even both love the same collage and want to go with each other. You just know he's the one.

Dear friend, you are young. Very young. Your education should come first then study those things after. Little you may know that these things distract you. I'm 15. I had a boyfriend who I thought loved me, believe me, guys, know just what to say to girls. They say what we want them to say and these are traps. It's okay to have male best friends but keep your goal in front of you. Finish college and get your degrees. Along the way, you may meet Mr. Perfect and whatever God wants for you, he'll do it! You can write on my message board whenever you need to talk. Remember you can also talk to God about your problem. He's the man with ALL THE ANSWERS!

Alright, I'm a 13 year old girl, me and my boyfriend have been since 7th grade when we met (we're in 8th grade now) and I'm totally comfortable around him. I know I love him, and I don't think at 13 your too young to know what love is. I think you just have to be mature enough to handle it. And YES, I have met numerous couples that began dating in 6th and 7th grade that are still together, years and years later, and are married and happily in love. You can tell they're in love. They act like newlyweds, the way they look at each other. Honestly, you shouldn't be looking for a guy to love you back, because when you look, your going to seem desperate and then perverted boys will want you. Just go on and take it slow, you don't HAVE to have a boyfriend right this very second, trust me. Quit looking for your future husband, look for a boy that treats you right and is your friend. You should feel comfortable around him.

Honestly, I'm 18, in college and am still seeking 'true love'. I've had the same boyfriend for 3, going on 4, years, and I honestly can't tell you if its true love. True love, at least to me, is something that is cultivated over time. Its not just a thing that 'happens'. Your thirteen, have many years and experiences ahead of you, and a hell of a lot of disappointment to overcome in the future. There will be many lovely guys heading your way, don't worry about that.

On another note, I think its totally possible to see wonderful love at age 13. I remember having my first boyfriend and being totally smitten with the guy in only 8th grade. But that true love I think you are desperately hoping for won't come along for a while.

Take advantage of everyone that loves you. Each relationship you finish helps you mature, grow up and take a step towards a love that makes you happy.

I'm a thirteen year old boy and I've liked this girl FOREVER. But she never seemed to feel the same way. To tell the truth, I'm still not completely over her and still want her to like me. I figure if I've tried for this long and she still doesn't feel the same way, she probably never will. So I'm just going to take what life throws at me and if I find someone else, I'll go with it and see what happens.

If you have a lot of boyfriends then I would be feeling just fine about NOT finding true love. Your question makes me wonder if you have abandonment issues or you parents/siblings/other relatives etc. are emotionally available to you, so you are seeking it out elsewhere. You maybe be setting yourself up for a heartbreak, pregancy and other unwarranted consequences. Have fun being a teenager. How are you doing with girlfriends?